David Schafer: The Power of Example (Rom. 2:21)
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Synopsis
This short Bethel morning-worship discourse argues that effective religious teaching depends on practicing what one teaches, taking Romans ch. 2 v. 21 as its central principle. It begins with marital breakdown and the reputational consequences of Christian inconsistency, while explicitly cautioning against judging divorced believers without knowing their circumstances. The speaker then presents the family as a formative setting for learning love and respect for authority, before extending exemplary conduct to Bethel work, preaching, and everyday interactions. His purpose is to turn attention away from others’ shortcomings and toward personal conduct that strengthens relationships, encourages imitation, and honors Jehovah.
Structure
The opening engages pointed comments in the day’s text about separation and divorce, then immediately qualifies their application: divorce alone does not establish spiritual weakness. Jeremiah ch. 3 v. 1–5 supplies a compassionate pivot, portraying Jehovah as acquainted with the pain of marital betrayal. The principal interpretive pivot follows when Romans ch. 2 v. 21 is reframed as a lesson about example rather than a warrant for judging others. Two Watchtower quotations explain why family life matters, after which practical questions about time together, submission, and forgiveness translate the theme into marital conduct. Malachi ch. 2 v. 13–16 adds religious seriousness and a call for self-control. The closing broadens the application to the Bethel and worldwide religious community, using conversational imitation and increased preaching hours as illustrations before returning to the qualification to teach.
Rhetoric and framing
The discourse combines admonition with a deliberate pastoral qualification, although its overall function is instructional rather than case-specific counseling. Its opening language about spiritual failure establishes seriousness, while acknowledgment of unknown circumstances moderates potentially sweeping judgments. Rhetorical questions redirect dissatisfaction with a spouse into self-examination. The repeated formula 'Be the kind of ... that you want' makes the central lesson memorable and connects marriage, institutional work, and public behavior. Biblical authority and Watchtower commentary operate together, with the latter supplying an account of childhood formation and Satan’s attack on the family. This creates a cosmic conflict framework in which loving homes and respect for authority serve divine purposes, while family disruption advances Satan’s aims. Inclusive references to the Bethel and worldwide 'family' reinforce communal identification; praise for leaders who auxiliary pioneered presents organizational leadership as exemplary. The speaker also acknowledges demanding schedules, making his appeal responsive to the audience’s working conditions.
Main arguments
- Professed Christian identity should be supported by conduct, but judgments about divorced individuals require knowledge of their circumstances.
- Because family life forms early understandings of love and authority, conduct within the home has lasting religious significance.
- Teaching others credibly requires first learning and applying the same standards oneself.
- Desired changes in a spouse should prompt corresponding changes in one’s own availability, submission, and forgiveness.
- Positive example can influence the wider religious community, especially when those taking the lead model the conduct they encourage.
- Self-control and cooperation with holy spirit make consistent conduct possible and thereby honor Jehovah.
Scripture use
Romans ch. 2 v. 21 supplies the organizing question about teaching oneself; Romans ch. 2 v. 22–24 initially connects inconsistency with damage to God’s reputation. The speaker applies this material to marriage and institutional life rather than examining Paul’s larger argument in detail. Jeremiah ch. 3 v. 1–5 receives more sustained quotation: its portrayal of Israel as an unfaithful wife becomes a theological analogy for Jehovah’s understanding of marital pain. That compassionate application is an inference from the prophetic metaphor, not a direct discussion of individual divorce cases. Philippians ch. 1 v. 10, 1 Corinthians ch. 11 v. 3, and Colossians ch. 3 v. 13 function as brief practical warrants for prioritizing a spouse, modeling submission, and forgiving. The wording about buying out time is blended into the application of Philippians rather than distinguished from its language about more important things. The application of 1 Corinthians retains a gendered headship framework while placing responsibility on the husband to model submission himself. Malachi ch. 2 v. 13–16 supplies a warning against marital treachery; the quoted wording of ch. 2 v. 15 supports an emphasis on spirit and self-control without discussion of textual or translation difficulties. Proverbs ch. 15 v. 1 anchors the claim that mild speech can de-escalate conflict. Overall, this is thematic devotional interpretation rather than sustained contextual exegesis.
Overall assessment
The discourse is strongest as a compact exhortation to ethical consistency: its central principle is clear, its applications are concrete, and its warning against uninformed judgments meaningfully qualifies the opening treatment of divorce. It also redirects listeners from demanding change in others toward examining their own behavior. Its evidentiary limits appear where theological claims about Satan, observational claims about imitation, and organizational statistics are joined into one explanatory sequence. The reported increase in preaching hours illustrates the desired outcome but does not establish that leaders’ example caused it. Likewise, conversational mimicry offers an accessible analogy rather than strong evidence for durable moral change. The result is a coherent devotional appeal whose persuasive strength rests chiefly on shared scriptural and organizational commitments, not on independently demonstrated causal claims.
Claims analysis
12 claims reviewed; 1 anecdotal.
- Anecdotal Weak Support Verifiable Behavioral
Many of those taking the lead in the organization did exactly that. They taught by example. ... The result? Hours are up everywhere.
- Citation detail
- An account of Bethel members and organizational leaders auxiliary pioneering in August, juxtaposed with an unspecified annual hours report.
- Independent verification
- The talk offers no evidence isolating leadership example as the cause of increased reported preaching hours.
- Source trace
- No Traceable Origin
Key evidence
Annual worldwide totals contain no measure linking additional hours to the August example of Bethel leaders.
Analysis
This is anecdote-as-proof and an unsupported causal leap from examples at Bethel to worldwide annual change. Even if the participation anecdotes and aggregate increase are accurate, they do not establish imitation as the mechanism. The relationship between the cited August and 'last year' is also unspecified.
Factualness notes
Total reported hours can change through the number of publishers, participation rates, average hours per participant, campaigns, reporting practices, and other factors. Demonstrating an effect from leaders' example would require evidence linking exposure to those examples with subsequent behavioral change.
- Scripture Weak Support Verifiable Behavioral
We can't properly teach anything if we don't thoroughly know it and apply it ourselves.
- Citation detail
- Romans ch. 2 v. 21.
- Independent verification
- Knowledge and consistent modeling can improve teaching, but neither the cited text nor educational research establishes this universal prerequisite.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Key evidence
Romans ch. 2 vv. 21–23 condemns hypocrisy; it does not say that a hypocrite is incapable of conveying accurate instruction.
Analysis
This turns an ethical challenge to hypocrisy into a universal account of teaching competence. A person can accurately teach a rule or skill while failing to practice it consistently. In a short devotional, the wording functions as motivational overstatement, but it should not be mistaken for a demonstrated educational law.
Factualness notes
Romans ch. 2 v. 21 asks whether someone who teaches another also teaches himself, followed by examples of inconsistency. Its concern is moral accountability, not a finding that instruction by an inconsistent teacher cannot succeed.
- Scripture Weak Support Verifiable Theological
Apply Philippians 1.10, buy out the opportune time to spend time for the more important things. Spend time with your mate.
- Citation detail
- Philippians ch. 1 v. 10.
- Independent verification
- The reference supports discerning what matters, but the language about buying out time comes from other passages, and marital time is the speaker's application.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Key evidence
Compare Philippians ch. 1 v. 10 with Ephesians ch. 5 v. 16: the talk combines distinct scriptural expressions.
Analysis
This is a reasonable pastoral application, but not the direct content of the verse. The spoken formulation blends passages rather than accurately identifying where each expression occurs.
Factualness notes
Philippians ch. 1 v. 10 concerns discerning or approving what is excellent; the NWT uses 'make sure of the more important things.' The NWT expression about 'buying out the opportune time' appears in Ephesians ch. 5 v. 16 and Colossians ch. 4 v. 5. None of these verses specifically instructs spouses to schedule time together.
- Scripture Weak Support Verifiable Theological Worldview as fact
He had Jehovah's Holy Spirit working with him. He demonstrated self-control.
- Citation detail
- Malachi ch. 2 v. 15, following a quotation about one who did not treat his wife treacherously and had 'what remained of the Spirit.'
- Independent verification
- This depends on a particular interpretation of an exceptionally difficult Hebrew verse; the text does not unambiguously identify the spirit as God's holy spirit.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Key evidence
The contrasting renderings of Malachi ch. 2 v. 15 in the NWT, ESV, and NRSVue demonstrate that the speaker's identification is not explicit or textually settled.
Analysis
The speaker makes a disputed reading sound explicit: the presence of 'spirit' becomes evidence that Jehovah's holy spirit was operating in a faithful husband. The exhortation to guard one's spirit can support a general appeal to self-restraint, but it does not resolve the identity of the spirit in the preceding clause.
Factualness notes
Malachi ch. 2 v. 15 has uncertain syntax involving 'one,' 'spirit,' and 'offspring of God.' Standard translations differ substantially over the subject and meaning. The Hebrew word for spirit does not by itself specify the holy spirit. The older NWT's 'one who did not do it' is one interpretive rendering, not a secure statement shared across translations.
- Scripture Unsupported Not verifiable Theological Worldview as fact
When baptized marriage mates are planning to separate or to divorce each other on unscriptural grounds, something is surely spiritually wrong in their life.
- Citation detail
- An unidentified daily-text commentary citing Romans ch. 2 vv. 22–24.
- Independent verification
- The cited passage criticizes religious hypocrisy but does not establish a general spiritual diagnosis for people contemplating separation or divorce.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Key evidence
Romans ch. 2 vv. 17–24 contains no teaching about grounds for marital separation or divorce.
Analysis
The speaker presents an organizational judgment as settled, rather than deriving it from the cited passage. Calling the grounds 'unscriptural' already incorporates the organization's disputed classification. The subsequent warning against judging individual divorced Christians is a meaningful qualification, but it does not substantiate this blanket spiritual diagnosis.
Factualness notes
Romans ch. 2 vv. 17–24 addresses inconsistency between teaching the law and violating it, including stealing, adultery, and sacrilege. It does not discuss marital separation. Paul's treatment of separation and an unbelieving spouse's departure in 1 Corinthians ch. 7 vv. 10–15 also demonstrates that the relevant biblical material is more varied than this citation suggests.
- General reference Moderate Support Verifiable Statistical
There's a worldwide increase in hours last year of practically 6%.
- Citation detail
- An unspecified organizational report; the transcript supplies no service year or underlying totals.
- Independent verification
- The statement closely matches the organization's reported increase from the 2013 to the 2014 service year, approximately 5.67%, but the talk's date is not supplied.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Analysis
If 'last year' means the 2014 service year, 'practically 6%' is reasonable rounding. Because the transcript is undated, that identification remains conditional. These totals verify what the organization reported, not independently audited time actually spent.
Factualness notes
The difference between the published 2014 and 2013 totals is 104,307,369 hours. Dividing by the 2013 total gives approximately 5.665%. The reference to international conventions is compatible with this period but does not independently establish the date.
- General reference Unsupported Verifiable Statistical
Hours are up everywhere.
- Citation detail
- An unspecified report and the immediately following worldwide percentage.
- Independent verification
- A rise in the worldwide total does not establish a rise in every country, branch territory, or local group.
- Source trace
- Secondary Only
Key evidence
The worldwide totals cited in the 2013 and 2014 service reports establish aggregate growth, not growth in every constituent location.
Analysis
Taken literally, 'everywhere' is much stronger than the aggregate statistic offered. It may be colloquial enthusiasm in a brief devotional, but it is not demonstrated by worldwide growth. The unspecified geographic scope and year prevent a definitive contrary finding from this transcript alone.
Factualness notes
An aggregate total can increase while some constituent locations decline. Establishing universal geographic growth requires comparable local data for all locations, not merely successive worldwide totals.
- Scripture Moderate Support Verifiable Theological Worldview as fact
The God who hates a divorcing...
- Citation detail
- An allusion to Malachi ch. 2 v. 16, followed later by an explicit reference to Malachi ch. 2 vv. 13–16.
- Independent verification
- This represents a longstanding translation of a difficult Hebrew passage, but it is not the only defensible translation.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Analysis
The wording has genuine textual support in traditional translations, so it should not be dismissed as invented. Nevertheless, the speaker treats a disputed rendering as an unqualified statement of God's attitude toward divorce generally, without distinguishing divorce from the treacherous marital conduct condemned in context.
Factualness notes
Some translations render Malachi ch. 2 v. 16 as God's declaration that he hates divorce. Others, including the ESV and NIV, construe the difficult Hebrew as describing a man who hates and divorces his wife. The surrounding passage explicitly condemns faithlessness toward the wife of one's youth.
- Scripture Interpretive (Non-Falsifiable) Not verifiable Theological Worldview as fact
Jehovah described [his relationship] with his wife-like organization, the ancient nation of Israel. So Jehovah knows the pain of heart that comes to people in that circumstance.
- Citation detail
- Jeremiah ch. 3 vv. 1–5, quoted at length.
- Independent verification
- Jeremiah does use an unfaithful-wife metaphor for the people's relationship with their deity. Whether this establishes God's literal emotional experience is a theological inference.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Analysis
The marriage imagery is genuinely present. The move from that imagery to God's experiential knowledge of marital heartbreak is devotional interpretation, not historical proof. 'Wife-like organization' also imports modern organizational terminology into an ancient covenant metaphor.
Factualness notes
Jeremiah ch. 3 depicts religious and political infidelity through marital and sexual imagery. Its opening evokes the divorce-and-remarriage problem in Deuteronomy ch. 24 vv. 1–4. In its broader literary setting, the chapter distinguishes faithless Israel and treacherous Judah; it is not simply an account of an individual marriage.
- Magazine citation Moderate Support Verifiable Behavioral
This is where our first and most enduring impressions about love are formed.
- Citation detail
- The Watchtower, June 15, 1995, page 14, 'What Motivates You to Serve God?'
- Independent verification
- Developmental research supports the importance of early caregiving for attachment and later relationships, but not an unrestricted claim that family impressions are always the most enduring.
- Source trace
- Secondary Only
Analysis
The general developmental point is credible. The superlative 'most enduring' goes beyond the evidence supplied: peers, later relationships, adversity, and changed caregiving conditions also shape relational expectations. The magazine citation supplies no research source in the talk.
Factualness notes
Attachment research finds both continuity and change in relational patterns. Early caregiving matters, but early experience is not destiny, and 'impressions about love' is broader and less precisely defined than the attachment constructs measured in these studies.
- Magazine citation Unsupported Not verifiable Theological Worldview as fact
Satan ... insidiously attempts to distort our concept of love at an early age. That's why Satan is attacking the family.
- Citation detail
- The Watchtower, June 15, 1995, page 14, supplemented by The Watchtower, July 15, 2012, page 31.
- Independent verification
- There is no independently testable evidence identifying Satan as the agent behind family conflict or establishing his alleged motives.
- Source trace
- Secondary Only
Key evidence
Conger, Conger, and Martin, Journal of Marriage and Family, 2010, reviews empirically studied family mechanisms without establishing the alleged supernatural agency.
Analysis
A plausible premise about childhood development does not establish a supernatural agent or that agent's intentions. The talk presents the magazines' causal explanation as known fact rather than as a confessional interpretation. The publications are sources for the organization's teaching, not primary evidence of Satan's activities.
Factualness notes
Research identifies observable influences on family functioning, including economic strain, parental mental health, conflict, and caregiving behavior. Such findings neither prove nor disprove a supernatural worldview, but they do not substantiate this particular causal attribution.
- Scripture Moderate Support Verifiable Behavioral
Speak in a kind and respectful tone, and you'll notice that others speak back to you in a kind and respectful tone. ... Others will do the same thing.
- Citation detail
- Proverbs ch. 15 v. 1, supplemented by informal examples of conversational imitation.
- Independent verification
- Respectful communication can encourage reciprocity and reduce escalation, but the response is contingent rather than guaranteed.
- Source trace
- Primary Source Verified
Analysis
The underlying tendency is credible, and the speaker elsewhere concedes that not everyone imitates a good example. That qualification should govern these more categorical conversational predictions. Behavioral mimicry studies do not establish that kindness reliably makes every interlocutor calm or respectful.
Factualness notes
Proverbs ch. 15 v. 1 presents a wisdom maxim contrasting a gentle answer with a harsh word, not an exceptionless promise. Research finds mimicry and prosocial reciprocity under some conditions, with substantial dependence on social context and the relationship between participants.