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1-2. How does Jehovah view faithful older ones? (Psalm 92:12-14; see also picture.)

PEOPLE around the world react differently to getting old. For example, imagine this scenario: Do you remember when you noticed your first gray hair? You may have been tempted to pull it out before anyone saw it. But you realized that pulling out gray hairs was not going to stop more of them from appearing. This example illustrates how hard many individuals resist getting older.

² However, our heavenly Father has a different view of his servants who are aging. (Prov. 16:31) He likens them to thriving trees. (Read Psalm 92:12-14.) Why is that comparison fitting? Trees that are laden with leaves and fragrant flowers are often many decades old. One of the most striking trees is the Japanese flowering cherry. Some of the most beautiful ones are over a thousand years old. Much like these mature trees, faithful ones who are up in years are beautiful, especially in God’s eyes. Jehovah sees the person behind the gray hair. And He appreciates the beautiful qualities of older ones​—their endurance and loyalty—​as well as their many years of faithful service to Him.

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3. Give an example of how Jehovah has used older ones to accomplish his purpose.

³ A person’s advanced age does not decrease his value to Jehovah.a In fact, Jehovah often uses older ones to accomplish his purpose. For example, Sarah was advanced in age when Jehovah announced that she would become the mother of a mighty nation and an ancestress of the Messiah. (Gen. 17:15-19) Moses was up in years when Jehovah commissioned him to lead the Israelites out of Egypt. (Ex. 7:6, 7) And the apostle John was elderly when Jehovah inspired him to write five Bible books.

4. According to Proverbs 15:15, what can help older ones endure the challenges they face? (See also picture.)

⁴ Older ones face many challenges that come with advancing years. One sister humorously said, “Getting old is not for wimps.” But having joyb can help older ones to endure the trials that come with being up in years. (Read Proverbs 15:15.) In this article, we will discuss practical things that older ones can do to remain joyful. We will also consider how others can help older brothers and sisters in their congregation. First, let us discuss why it can be a challenge to maintain our joy as we age.

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HOW OLD AGE COULD AFFECT YOUR JOY

5. What may cause some older ones to get discouraged?

⁵ What might cause you to get discouraged? Perhaps you feel disheartened because you cannot do what you once did. You may long for the days when you were younger and in better health. (Eccl. 7:10) For example, a sister named Ruby says: “Putting on clothing is difficult because of my aches and pains as well as my lack of mobility. Something as simple as lifting my feet to put socks on is hard. My hands are numb and full of arthritis, which makes it challenging to accomplish even small tasks.” And Harold, who served at Bethel, says: “I don’t recognize the man I’ve become, and I get frustrated at times. I used to be very athletic. Playing baseball was my favorite pastime. Others would say, ‘Give the ball to Harold because he never misses.’ But now, I don’t think I could even throw the ball.”

6. (a) What other reasons could cause some older ones to feel discouraged? (b) What can help older ones determine whether to stop driving a vehicle or not? (See in this issue the article entitled “Should I Stop Driving?”)

⁶ You may feel discouraged because you are losing a measure of your independence. This is especially true if you need the help of a caregiver or if you have to move in with one of your children. Or perhaps you are deeply disappointed because your health or your eyesight has deteriorated to the point that you can no longer go places by yourself or drive a vehicle. How distressing! But it may help to remember that our value to Jehovah and others does not depend on whether we can care for ourselves, live alone, or drive a car. And we can be assured that Jehovah understands our feelings. What matters to him is who we are on the inside​—someone whose heart is full of love and appreciation for him and for fellow worshippers.​—1 Sam. 16:7.

7. What can help those who are saddened by the possibility that the end of this system will not come in their lifetime?

⁷ Perhaps you are saddened by the possibility that the end of this system will not come in your lifetime. If you feel that way, what can help? Try to remember that Jehovah is patiently waiting to bring an end to this wicked world. (Isa. 30:18) But his patience is not without purpose. His patience is allowing millions of people the time and the opportunity to come to know him and serve him. (2 Pet. 3:9) So when you feel discouraged, try to think about how many people will benefit from Jehovah’s patience before the end comes. Might some of them be members of your own family?

8. How might the challenges of aging affect older ones?

⁸ No matter our age, when we are not feeling well, we are more likely to say or do things that we regret. (Eccl. 7:7; Jas. 3:2) For example, when the faithful man Job was suffering, his words became “wild talk.” (Job 6:1-3) Additionally, a medical condition may cause older ones to do or say things that are out of character for them. Of course, none of us would intentionally use our age or our health as an excuse to be unkind or demanding. And if we realize that we have said something unloving to someone, we should not hesitate to apologize.​—Matt. 5:23, 24.

HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL

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9. Why should you accept help from others? (See also pictures.)

⁹ Accept help from others. (Gal. 6:2) At first, you may find that difficult. A sister named Gretl says: “Sometimes I find it challenging to accept help because I feel that I will be a burden. It has taken time for me to change my thinking and humbly admit that I need help.” When you accept help from others, you allow them to feel the joy that comes from giving. (Acts 20:35) And you will no doubt be pleased to see just how much others love you and care about you.

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10. Why should you remember to show gratitude? (See also picture.)

¹⁰ Show gratitude. (Col. 3:15; 1 Thess. 5:18) When others do good things for us, we feel gratitude but we may forget to show it. However, if we smile and say thank you, we make our friends feel valued and appreciated. Leah, who is a caregiver for older ones at Bethel, says: “One of the sisters I care for leaves me little thank you notes. They’re not long messages, but they’re so sweet. I really love getting them, and it makes me happy to know that she appreciates my help.”

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11. How can you help others? (See also picture.)

¹¹ Strive to help others. When you focus your time and energy on others, you will be less likely to focus on your own problems. An African proverb likens older ones to a library filled with books containing a wealth of wisdom. But books that are left on the shelf do not teach or tell stories. So as a “living library,” take the initiative to share your knowledge and experience with younger ones. Ask them questions, and then listen. Teach them why living by Jehovah’s standards is always best and will make them happy. No doubt you will feel joyful when you comfort and strengthen your younger friends.​—Ps. 71:18.

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12. According to Isaiah 46:4, what does Jehovah promise to do for older ones? (See also picture.)

¹² Pray to Jehovah for strength. Though you may feel physically or emotionally exhausted, Jehovah “never tires out or grows weary.” (Isa. 40:28) How does Jehovah use his limitless energy? One way is by strengthening faithful older ones. (Isa. 40:29-31) In fact, he promises to help them. (Read Isaiah 46:4.) And Jehovah always keeps his promises. (Josh. 23:14; Isa. 55:10, 11) When you pray and then feel Jehovah’s love and support for you personally, you cannot help but feel joyful.

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13. According to 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, what should we remember? (See also picture.)

¹³ Remind yourself that your situation is temporary. When we remember that a difficult situation is temporary, we can endure it more easily. And the Bible assures us that old age and poor health are temporary. (Job 33:25; Isa. 33:24) So you can find joy in knowing that your best days are ahead of you, not behind you. (Read 2 Corinthians 4:16-18.) But what can others do to help?

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HOW OTHERS CAN HELP

14. Why is it important to visit and call older ones?

¹⁴ Visit and call older brothers and sisters regularly. (Heb. 13:16) Older ones can feel isolated. A housebound brother named Camille says: “I have to stay indoors from morning to evening. So I get really bored. Sometimes, I feel like an old lion in a cage. I get nervous and frustrated.” When we visit older ones, we reassure them that they are important to us and that we love them. Likely, we all can recall a time when we intended to call or visit an older person in our congregation but we did not follow through. We all lead busy lives. So, what can help us to “make sure of the more important things,” including visiting older ones? (Phil. 1:10) You may find it helpful to make notes on your calendar to remind you to send a text message to older ones in your congregation or to call them. You can also schedule time to visit them; do not leave it to chance.

15. What can younger ones and older ones do together?

¹⁵ If you are a younger person, you may wonder what you can talk about or what activities you can engage in with older ones. But try not to overthink it. Just be a good friend. (Prov. 17:17) Stop and talk with older ones before or after congregation meetings. Perhaps you could ask them to share their favorite scripture or a funny childhood memory. You could also invite them to watch a JW Broadcasting^® program with you. You may also be able to help older ones in practical ways. For example, you can help them keep their devices up-to-date or download the latest study publications. A sister named Carol says: “Offer to do things with older ones that you enjoy doing. Though I am older, I still want to enjoy life. I like shopping, eating out, and getting out in creation.” And a sister named Maira says: “One of my friends is 90 years old. We have a 57-year age gap. But I often forget about that because we laugh together and watch movies together. And when we face problems, we look to each other for advice.”

16. Why may it be helpful to accompany older ones to medical appointments?

¹⁶ Accompany them to medical appointments. In addition to providing transportation for older ones, you may be able to ensure that the medical staff are treating them well and giving them the attention that they need. (Isa. 1:17) You may be able to help the older one by taking notes about what the doctor says. An older sister named Ruth says: “Often, when I go alone to a medical appointment, the doctor does not take me seriously. Doctors may say such things as, ‘Your problem is psychological; it’s in your head.’ But when I am accompanied by someone, it makes all the difference in how the doctor deals with me. I thank my brothers and sisters who take the time to accompany me.”

17. What aspects of the ministry can you enjoy with older ones?

¹⁷ Work with them in the ministry. Some older ones may not have the physical strength to preach from door to door. Could you, for example, invite an older sister to join you for cart witnessing? You might even provide a chair for her so that she can sit near the cart. Or could you offer to take an older brother on a Bible study, perhaps even conducting the study at his home? Elders can consider arranging meetings for field service at the home of older ones so that they can participate more easily. Anything we do to honor older ones is worth the effort.​—Prov. 3:27; Rom. 12:10.

18. What will we discuss in the following study article?

¹⁸ We have been reminded that Jehovah loves and values older ones. And so do the rest of us in the congregation! Growing old is difficult, but with Jehovah’s help, you can maintain your joy. (Ps. 37:25) How encouraging it is to know that your best days are ahead of you, not behind you! What about those of us who are caregivers for an older family member, a child, or a friend who is ill? How can you maintain your joy? We will discuss the answer to that question in the following study article.

Are you facing a similar situation? If so, what can help you to determine whether you should keep driving?

In some countries, drivers over a certain age who want to renew their license must be examined or certified by a doctor. Christians living in these countries comply with the laws and with the decisions of those authorized by the State. (Rom. 13:1) But no matter where you live, there are ways to assess your ability to drive safely.

EVALUATE YOUR DRIVING

As suggested by the National Institute on Aging (NIA) website in the United States, you could start by asking yourself the following questions:

• Do I have difficulty reading road signs or seeing at night?

• Am I losing my flexibility, making it difficult for me to turn my head to check my mirrors and blind spots?

• Do I find it challenging to react quickly, such as when moving my foot from the accelerator to the brake pedal?

• Do I drive so slowly that I interfere with the flow of traffic?

• Have I had a number of near misses, or does my vehicle have dents and scratches because of running into stationary objects?

• Have I been pulled over by a police officer because of my driving?

• Have I ever dozed off while driving?

• Do I take any medications that could affect my driving?

• Have my family members or friends expressed concerns about my driving?

If you answered yes to one or two of these questions, you may want to consider making some adjustments. For example, you might limit how much you drive, especially at night. Regularly reassess your driving. You could ask a family member or a friend to give you some feedback about your driving. You might also consider taking a safe-driving course. However, if you answered yes to several of the questions above, it may be in your best interests to stop driving.a

BE GUIDED BY BIBLE PRINCIPLES

We may not recognize that our driving skills are diminishing. And the subject of whether we should stop driving can be a sensitive matter. So, what Bible principles can help you see your situation objectively and make a wise decision? Consider two.

Remain modest. (Prov. 11:2) As we get older, our eyesight, hearing, muscles, and reflexes deteriorate. For example, most people stop playing certain sports as they age because they realize that as they get older, it is easier for them to get hurt. A similar principle applies to driving. At some point, a person may modestly decide to stop driving out of regard for his own safety. (Prov. 22:3) And if others were to express their concerns, a modest person would be receptive and listen.​—Compare 2 Samuel 21:15-17.

Avoid bloodguilt. (Deut. 22:8) A car is a dangerous weapon when it is not operated safely. A person who keeps driving even though his skills have diminished could risk his own life and that of others. And if he were responsible for a fatal accident, he could incur bloodguilt.

If you are faced with the difficult decision of whether to stop driving, avoid thinking that you might lose your dignity or value as a person. Jehovah loves you for your beautiful qualities, including your modesty, humility, and concern for the welfare of others. And he promises to sustain you and comfort you. (Isa. 46:4) He will never abandon you. So ask him to help you use practical wisdom and spiritual discernment as you decide whether you should stop driving.

1-2. How does Jehovah feel about caregivers? (Proverbs 19:17) (See also pictures.)

“MY WIFE and I have been married for over 32 years,” says a brother from Korea named Jin-yeol. “For the past five years, I have been her caregiver. She suffers from Parkinson’s disease and can hardly move. I love and cherish my wife, and I enjoy caring for her. Each night, she sleeps in a hospital bed in our home. I sleep next to her, and we hold hands while we sleep.”

² Are you a caregiver for someone you love, such as your parent, mate, child, or friend? If so, you likely appreciate the unique privilege of helping him or her in such a personal way. And by caring for your loved one, you show your devotion to Jehovah. (1 Tim. 5:4, 8; Jas. 1:27) Still, you face challenges that often go unnoticed by others. At times, you may even feel that you are the only one suffering. You may outwardly smile, but when you are by yourself, you cannot hold back your tears. (Ps. 6:6) While others may not be aware of your struggles, Jehovah always is. (Compare Exodus 3:7.) Your tears and sacrifices are precious to him. (Ps. 56:8; 126:5) He notices everything you do to help your loved one. He considers himself to be indebted to you and promises to repay you.​—Read Proverbs 19:17.

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3. What challenges might Abraham and Sarah have faced while caring for Terah?

³ The Bible contains many accounts of men and women who were caregivers. Consider the example of Abraham and Sarah. When they left Ur, their father, Terah, was about 200 years old. Yet, he went along with them. They traveled some 960 kilometers (600 mi) to Haran. (Gen. 11:31, 32) No doubt Abraham and Sarah loved Terah, but imagine how challenging it might have been to care for him, especially while traveling. They likely traveled on camels or donkeys, which may have been extremely difficult for aged Terah. It would have been only natural for them to feel very tired at times, perhaps even exhausted. Whatever the case, Jehovah surely gave them the strength that they needed. Just as Jehovah sustained Abraham and Sarah, he will sustain and strengthen you.​—Ps. 55:22.

4. What will we discuss in this article?

⁴ Joy can help you persevere as a caregiver. (Prov. 15:13) A joyful person can remain happy despite his circumstances. (Jas. 1:2, 3) How can you develop such joy? One way is by relying on Jehovah in prayer and asking him to help you to keep a positive attitude. In this article, we will discuss additional things caregivers can do to remain joyful. We will also consider how others can assist them. First, let us discuss why caregivers need to maintain their joy and what challenges could rob them of it.

HOW CAREGIVING CAN AFFECT YOUR JOY

5. Why do caregivers need to maintain their joy?

⁵ If caregivers lose their joy, they could easily tire out. (Prov. 24:10) And when they are tired, they may become less kind and helpful than they want to be. What challenges can cause caregivers to lose their joy?

6. Why do some caregivers suffer from burnout?

⁶ Caregivers may experience burnout. A sister named Leah says: “Caregiving is emotionally draining even on a good day. At the end of the day, I often feel that I have nothing left to give. Sometimes I don’t even have the emotional energy to respond to a text message.” Others find it difficult to get enough rest or to take a much-needed break. A sister named Inés says: “I struggle to get enough sleep. At night, I often wake up every two hours to care for my mother-in-law. And my husband and I have not been able to take a vacation in years.” Some caregivers have to decline social invitations and even theocratic assignments because their loved one needs full-time care. As a result, they may feel lonely and trapped by their circumstances.

7. Why do some caregivers struggle with feelings of guilt or grief?

⁷ Caregivers may battle intense feelings of guilt or grief. A sister named Jessica says: “I struggle with my own limitations. Taking some time to care for myself makes me feel guilty and selfish.” Some caregivers feel guilty because at times they resent their situation. Others worry that they are not doing enough to help their loved one. Still others feel guilty because, in a moment of frustration, they said something hurtful to the person they were assisting. (Jas. 3:2) Some grieve the loss of the vibrant and healthy person they once knew. A sister named Barbara says: “One of the biggest challenges for me is watching the person I love deteriorate a little more each day.”

8. Relate an experience of how a few words of appreciation can affect a caregiver.

⁸ Some caregivers feel taken for granted. Why? Because they are rarely thanked or commended for their hard work and sacrifices. A few words of appreciation can go a long way. (1 Thess. 5:18) A sister named Melissa says: “At times, I have shed tears of frustration. But when those I care for tell me ‘Thank you for everything you do for me,’ it lifts my spirits! Those comments help me to wake up the next day ready and eager to take care of them again.” A brother named Ahmadu explains how receiving expressions of gratitude affects him. He and his wife care for their young niece who lives with them; she suffers from epileptic seizures. He says: “Even though she may not fully understand the magnitude of the sacrifices we make to care for her, joy wells up in my heart when she expresses appreciation for us or when she scribbles down the words ‘I love you.’”

HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL

9. How can a caregiver be modest?

⁹ Be modest. (Prov. 11:2) We all have limited time and energy. So you will have to set boundaries as to what you can and cannot do and occasionally say no. And that is OK! You are being modest. If others offer to assist you, gladly accept their help. A brother named Jay says: “We can only do so much at one time. Understanding your limits and not going beyond them will help you maintain your joy.”

10. Why is it important for caregivers to be discerning? (Proverbs 19:11)

¹⁰ Be discerning. (Read Proverbs 19:11.) When you are discerning, you are more likely to remain calm when provoked. A discerning person tries to understand why someone is acting a certain way. Understandably, some chronic diseases can cause a person to behave irrationally. (Eccl. 7:7) For example, a person who is normally kind and thoughtful might become argumentative or combative. Or he might become demanding, critical, or hard to please. If you assist someone who has a serious illness, you may find it helpful to learn about his disease. The more you understand his illness, the more likely you are to discern that his behavior is because of his condition, not because of who he is as a person.​—Prov. 14:29.

11. What important matters should caregivers make time for each day? (Psalm 132:4, 5)

¹¹ Make time to strengthen your friendship with Jehovah. At times, you will need to put aside some activities to care for other matters that are “more important.” (Phil. 1:10) One of these more important matters is strengthening your relationship with Jehovah. King David made Jehovah’s worship a priority. (Read Psalm 132:4, 5.) Similarly, it is important for you to prioritize some time each day to read a portion of the Bible and to pray. A sister named Elisha says: “I am able to maintain my joy by praying and by meditating on comforting psalms. Prayer has been a lifeline for me. I find myself praying to Jehovah throughout the day to stay calm.”

12. Why do caregivers need to make time to care for their health?

¹² Make time to care for your physical health. Busy people​—such as caregivers—​may find it a challenge to maintain a healthy diet because they have little time to shop for fresh foods and prepare nutritious meals. A good diet and a good exercise program are essential for your physical and mental health. So try to make good use of your limited time by eating healthy food and exercising regularly. (Eph. 5:15, 16) Additionally, try to get sufficient sleep. (Eccl. 4:6) Studies indicate that sleep can help remove toxins from our brain. The article “How Sleep Can Affect Stress,” issued by Banner Health, states that adequate sleep may also reduce anxiety and equip us to handle stress. You will also need to make some time for recreation. (Eccl. 8:15) One caregiver shared what helps her to remain joyful. She says: “When the weather is nice, I try to get outside and enjoy the sunshine. At least once a month, I also schedule a fun day with a friend.”

13. Why is it healthy to laugh? (Proverbs 17:22)

¹³ Maintain a sense of humor. (Read Proverbs 17:22; Eccl. 3:1, 4) Laughter is good for your physical and mental health. When you are caring for someone, rarely, if ever, does everything go exactly as planned. But if you can find humor in frustrating situations, you will likely find them easier to bear. And laughing with the person you care for can strengthen your bond.

14. How can talking to a trusted friend help you?

¹⁴ Talk to a trusted friend. Despite your best efforts, you will still feel overwhelmed occasionally. At such times, you may find it helpful to share your feelings with a good friend​—one who will not judge you or overreact. (Prov. 17:17) His or her listening ear and reassuring words may be just what you need to maintain your joy.​—Prov. 12:25.

15. How can focusing on your hope bring you joy?

¹⁵ Imagine your life in Paradise together. Try to remember that your role as a caregiver is temporary, and it is not a work that Jehovah originally intended for humans. (2 Cor. 4:16-18) “The real life” is yet to come. (1 Tim. 6:19) You will likely find great joy in talking with your loved one about what you will do together in Paradise. (Isa. 33:24; 65:21) A sister named Heather says: “I often tell the ones I assist that soon we will sew together, run together, and ride bikes together. We will bake bread and cook meals for our loved ones who are resurrected. Together, we thank Jehovah for our hope.”

HOW OTHERS CAN HELP

16. How might we be able to help a caregiver in our congregation? (See also picture.)

¹⁶ Help caregivers get some time for themselves. Those of us in the congregation can help by offering to assist the caregiver’s loved one. As a result, we give caregivers a mental break and allow them time to care for personal matters. (Gal. 6:2) Some publishers have created a weekly schedule for this purpose. A sister named Natalya, who cares for her paralyzed husband, says: “A brother in the congregation comes over once or twice a week to spend time with my husband. They share in the ministry together, they talk together, and they even watch movies together. These moments are very precious for my husband and give me time to care for my personal needs, such as going out for a walk.” In some cases, you might even offer to stay with a caregiver’s loved one overnight so that the caregiver can get a good night’s sleep.

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17. How can we help caregivers during congregation meetings?

¹⁷ Help caregivers during congregation meetings. Caregivers may get little out of congregation meetings, circuit assemblies, and regional conventions because they are busy caring for their loved one. Those in the congregation can offer to help by sitting with the caregiver’s loved one during some of these meetings or a portion of them. If the person in need is housebound, you could offer to go to his home and tie in to a meeting with him so that the caregiver can attend the meeting in person.

18. What else can we do for caregivers?

¹⁸ Commend caregivers and pray for them. Elders do well to shepherd caregivers regularly. (Prov. 27:23) And no matter what our circumstances are, all in the congregation can generously and regularly commend caregivers. We can also ask Jehovah to continue to strengthen them and help them to maintain their joy.​—2 Cor. 1:11.

19. What do we have to look forward to?

¹⁹ Soon, Jehovah will wipe away the tears of pain from all faces. Sickness and death will be no more. (Rev. 21:3, 4) “The lame will leap like the deer.” (Isa. 35:5, 6) The sad effects of old age and the pain of caring for a loved one who is sick will be part of “the former things [that] will not be called to mind.” (Isa. 65:17) Even now, while we await the fulfillment of our wonderful hope, Jehovah will not abandon us. If we continue to rely on him for strength, he will help us to “endure fully with patience and joy.”​—Col. 1:11.

1-2. (a) Why did Jehovah send his Son to the earth? (b) What will we discuss in this article? (Hebrews 5:7-9)

SOME 2,000 years ago, Jehovah God sent his most precious Son to the earth. Why? Among other things, it was to redeem the human race from the curse of sin and death and to undo the damage caused by Satan. (John 3:16; 1 John 3:8) Jehovah also knew that Jesus’ experience as a human would further prepare him to become a sympathetic, empathetic, and compassionate High Priest for us. Jesus began serving in that role after his baptism in 29 C.E.a

² In this article, we will discuss how Jesus’ experiences on earth helped him to become more qualified to serve as a sympathetic High Priest. As we deepen our understanding of how Jesus was “made perfect” for his role, we will find it easier to approach Jehovah, even if we are discouraged by our sins or weaknesses.​—Read Hebrews 5:7-9.

GOD’S BELOVED SON COMES TO EARTH

3-4. What significant changes did Jesus experience when he came to the earth?

³ Many of us have experienced a change in circumstances, such as moving away from a cherished home and leaving behind family and friends. Such changes can be challenging. But no human has dealt with changes like those Jesus experienced. In heaven, he was the most prominent of Jehovah’s spirit sons. He basked in Jehovah’s love and was always joyful as he served at God’s “right hand.” (Ps. 16:11; Prov. 8:30) Yet, Philippians 2:7 says that he willingly “emptied himself,” giving up his exalted position in heaven to live among imperfect humans on earth.

⁴ Consider, too, the circumstances surrounding Jesus’ birth and early life as a human. Jesus was born into a poor family, as shown by the humble sacrifice his parents offered after he was born. (Lev. 12:8; Luke 2:24) Learning of Jesus’ birth, wicked King Herod tried to kill Jesus. To get away from Herod’s clutches, the family became refugees in Egypt for a time. (Matt. 2:13, 15) What a change from Jesus’ prehuman existence!

5. What did Jesus observe on earth, and how did his experience prepare him for his role as High Priest? (See also picture.)

⁵ While on earth, Jesus saw suffering all around him. He undoubtedly experienced the loss of loved ones, apparently including his adoptive father, Joseph. During his ministry, Jesus came in contact with lepers, blind people, paralytics, and bereaved parents, and he felt compassion for them. (Matt. 9:2, 6; 15:30; 20:34; Mark 1:40, 41; Luke 7:13) True, he had seen suffering from his exalted heavenly position. But now, as a man on earth, he observed mankind’s pain from a new perspective. (Isa. 53:4) Jesus’ experiences on earth helped him to understand the feelings, frustrations, and pains of mankind. He personally experienced feelings and emotions common to humans, including anguish, weariness, and grief.

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JESUS SHOWS FELLOW FEELING FOR PEOPLE

6. What do the prophet Isaiah’s word pictures teach us about Jesus’ sympathy and compassion? (Isaiah 42:3)

⁶ Throughout his ministry, Jesus showed great empathy toward the weak and disadvantaged. In doing so, he fulfilled prophecy. In the Hebrew Scriptures, prosperous and strong people are sometimes likened to a fertile garden or to large, stately trees. (Ps. 92:12; Isa. 61:3; Jer. 31:12) But the poor and downtrodden are compared to a crushed reed and to the smoldering wick of a lamp, both of which are of little use to anyone. (Read Isaiah 42:3; Matt. 12:20) Under inspiration, the prophet Isaiah used these word pictures to foretell the love and compassion that Jesus would show to the common people who were viewed as worthless by others.

7-8. How did Jesus fulfill Isaiah’s prophecy?

⁷ The Gospel writer Matthew applied to Jesus these words of Isaiah: “No crushed reed will he break, and no smoldering wick will he extinguish.” Some of Jesus’ miracles benefited downtrodden ones who must have felt like a crushed reed or hopeless ones who felt like a smoldering wick, soon to be extinguished. Among others, there was a man who was full of leprosy. What hope did he have of being cured and enjoying the company of his family and friends? (Luke 5:12, 13) Then there was the man who was deaf and had a speech impediment. Think how he felt as he saw others engaging in animated conversations that he could not follow. (Mark 7:32, 33) But that is not all.

⁸ In Jesus’ day, many Jews believed that those who suffered afflictions were being punished for their own sins or for the sins of their parents. (John 9:2) As a result of this wrong belief, afflicted ones were made to feel worthless. In fulfillment of Isaiah’s prophecy, Jesus physically healed suffering ones and rekindled their hope in God. What confidence does this give us?

9. How does Hebrews 4:15, 16 highlight that our heavenly High Priest truly sympathizes with imperfect humans?

⁹ Read Hebrews 4:15, 16. We can be sure that Jesus will always be sympathetic toward us. What does that mean? A sympathetic person is one who is moved by the sufferings and emotions of another person. The Greek word rendered “sympathize” means to share the experience and feelings of another person. (See also Hebrews 10:34, where Paul uses the same Greek verb.) The accounts of Jesus’ miracles reveal just how deeply Jesus was affected by the suffering of others. He did not cure people out of a mere sense of duty. He truly cared about them and wanted to help them. For example, when he cured the leper, he could have performed the miracle from a distance, but instead he was moved to touch the man​—perhaps the first human touch the leper had experienced in many years! Jesus considerately took the deaf man away from the noise of the crowd and healed him in private. And when a Pharisee looked down on the repentant woman who had washed Jesus’ feet with her tears and dried them with her hair, Jesus strongly defended her. (Matt. 8:3; Mark 7:33; Luke 7:44) Jesus did not shun those who suffered from infirmities or those who had seriously sinned. On the contrary, he welcomed and compassionately reassured such people. We can trust that he is just as sympathetic toward us.

IMITATING OUR HIGH PRIEST TODAY

10. What spiritual provisions can we use today to help the deaf and the blind? (See also pictures.)

¹⁰ As Jesus’ faithful followers, we strive to imitate him in showing love, fellow feeling, and compassion to others. (1 Pet. 2:21; 3:8) While we cannot heal the deaf or the blind, we can certainly help such ones spiritually. For example, Bible publications are now available in over 100 sign languages. And to benefit the visually impaired, braille publications are available in over 60 languages and audio descriptions for our videos are produced in over 100 languages. These provisions help the deaf and the blind to draw close to Jehovah and his Son.

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11. How does Jehovah’s organization reflect Jesus’ concern for people of all backgrounds? (Acts 2:5-7, 33) (See also pictures.)

¹¹ Jehovah’s organization endeavors to help people of all backgrounds. Recall that after his resurrection, Jesus poured out holy spirit so that all those assembled for the festival of Pentecost could hear the good news, each in “his own language.” (Read Acts 2:5-7, 33.) Following his lead, the organization provides Bible-based publications in well over 1,000 languages, some of which are spoken by small numbers of people. For example, some Amerindian languages are spoken by relatively few people living in North and South America. Yet, publications have been made available in more than 160 of those languages to ensure that as many as possible can have access to the good news. Our publications are also available in over 20 Romany languages. Many thousands who speak such languages have responded to the truth.

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12. What other practical help is provided through Jehovah’s organization?

¹² Besides supervising such efforts to spread the good news, Jehovah’s organization provides relief to victims of natural disasters. To that end, thousands of volunteers make themselves available to help their brothers and sisters in need. The organization also helps provide modest places of worship where people can gather together to learn more about God’s love for them.

OUR HIGH PRIEST CAN HELP YOU

13. What are some ways that Jesus helps us?

¹³ As our fine shepherd, Jesus gives attention to our individual spiritual needs. (John 10:14; Eph. 4:7) At times, circumstances in life could make us feel like a smoldering wick or a bruised reed. We may become very discouraged because of a serious illness, a personal failure, or perhaps a damaged relationship with a fellow worshipper. We may struggle to look beyond the present pain and to focus on our hope for the future. Remember, though, that Jesus sees what you are going through and understands your innermost thoughts. Jesus’ compassion moves him to act in your behalf. For example, he can use holy spirit to empower you when you are weak. (John 16:7; Titus 3:6) Additionally, Jesus can use “gifts in men” and other fellow worshippers to encourage, support, and help you.​—Eph. 4:8.

14. What can we do when we feel discouraged?

¹⁴ If your flame has faltered or your spirit is crushed, meditate on Jesus’ role as our High Priest. Remember that Jehovah sent him to the earth not only to give his life as a ransom but also to help him better understand the problems faced by imperfect humans. When we are discouraged because of our sins or weaknesses, Jesus is ready and willing to provide help “at the right time.”​—Heb. 4:15, 16.

15. Relate an experience that shows how someone who has strayed from Jehovah’s flock can be helped to return to the congregation.

¹⁵ Jesus also guides his people in their efforts to search for and assist those who have strayed from Jehovah’s flock. (Matt. 18:12, 13) Note the experience of Stefano.b After being removed from the congregation for 12 years, he decided to attend a meeting. “It was awkward, but I wanted to be a part of Jehovah’s loving family again,” he says. “The elders who met with me made me feel welcome. At times, feelings of worthlessness surfaced, and I wanted to give up. But the brothers reminded me that Jehovah and Jesus wanted me to persevere. When I was reinstated, the entire congregation warmly received me and my family. My wife eventually accepted a Bible study, and today we serve Jehovah as a family.” How pleased our loving High Priest must be to see repentant ones get the help they need to return to the congregation!

16. Why are you grateful to have such a sympathetic High Priest?

¹⁶ During his life on earth, Jesus gave help at the right time to countless people. Today, we can have complete confidence that he will help us whenever we need it. And in the new world soon to come, he will assist obedient humans in becoming completely free of all the effects of sin and imperfection. How grateful we are to our God, Jehovah, who was moved by great love and mercy to appoint his Son as our sympathetic High Priest!

1-2. How can we come to appreciate that we are precious in Jehovah’s eyes?

AMONG Jehovah’s precious servants there are some who have a low opinion of themselves. Perhaps someone has treated them as if they were of little value. Has that been your experience? If so, how can you come to appreciate that you are precious in Jehovah’s eyes?

² You might find it helpful to consider Bible accounts that reveal how Jehovah wants people to be viewed and treated. His Son, Jesus, treated people with dignity and respect. By doing so, he showed that he and his Father highly value humble ones who feel that they are of little worth. (John 5:19; Heb. 1:3) In this article, we will consider: (1) how Jesus helped people recognize their value and (2) how we can convince ourselves that we are truly precious in God’s eyes.​—Hag. 2:7.

HOW JESUS HELPED PEOPLE RECOGNIZE THEIR VALUE

3. How did Jesus treat the Galileans who looked to him for help?

³ During Jesus’ third preaching tour in Galilee, people in one area after another flocked to him, listening and being cured of their infirmities. Jesus noted that “they were skinned and thrown about like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matt. 9:36; see study notes.) Their religious leaders had considered them as too ignorant to matter, even calling them “accursed people.” (John 7:47-49; study note) But Jesus dignified them by taking the time to teach them and to cure them of their diseases. (Matt. 9:35) Furthermore, in order to help more individuals, he trained his apostles to share in the preaching work and gave them the authority to cure diseases and infirmities.​—Matt. 10:5-8.

4. What do we learn from the way Jesus treated his humble listeners?

⁴ By treating his listeners with dignity and consideration, Jesus showed that he and his Father view as precious those who are often looked down upon by society. If you are serving Jehovah but have doubts about your value, think about the attention Jesus showed to humble people who wanted to learn from him. Doing so can help you see how precious you are in Jehovah’s eyes.

5. Describe the circumstances of a Galilean woman whom Jesus met.

⁵ Jesus not only taught crowds of people but also gave attention to individuals. For example, during his Galilean ministry, Jesus met a woman who had suffered from an abnormal flow of blood for 12 years. (Mark 5:25) Because her medical condition made her ceremonially unclean, anyone touching her would become unclean. This must have greatly limited her contact with people. Furthermore, she could not join others in the observances and celebrations of public worship. (Lev. 15:19, 25) No doubt this woman suffered both physically and emotionally.​—Mark 5:26.

6. In what manner was the woman with the flow of blood cured?

⁶ This afflicted woman wanted Jesus to heal her. But she did not approach him directly. Why not? Perhaps she felt embarrassed or humiliated because of her condition. Or she might have feared that Jesus would reject her because she entered the crowd while being ceremonially unclean. So she merely touched his outer garment, convinced that this gesture alone would make her well. (Mark 5:27, 28) Her faith was rewarded​—she was healed. Then Jesus asked who had touched him, and she confessed what she had done. How did Jesus treat her?

7. How did Jesus treat this distraught woman? (Mark 5:34)

⁷ Jesus treated the woman with kindness and respect. He noticed that she was “frightened and trembling.” (Mark 5:33) Mindful of her feelings, he spoke reassuringly to her. He even called her “daughter”​—a term of endearment that was not merely polite but also kind and tender. (Read Mark 5:34.) The study note for this term states that this is “the only recorded instance in which Jesus directly addressed a woman as ‘daughter,’ perhaps because of her delicate situation and her ‘trembling.’” Imagine how relieved she must have felt! Had Jesus not spoken reassuringly, she might have walked away physically cured but emotionally burdened with feelings of guilt. Instead, Jesus helped her to see herself as she truly was​—a precious daughter of a loving heavenly Father.

8. What challenges did a sister from Brazil have to contend with?

⁸ Today, too, some of God’s servants are afflicted with health problems that affect them emotionally. Maria,a a regular pioneer from Brazil, was born with physical defects that left her without her lower limbs and her left hand. She explains: “I was constantly bullied at school because of my disability. I was given hurtful nicknames. I even faced prejudice from my own family.”

9. How was Maria helped to see herself as precious to Jehovah?

⁹ How did Maria receive help? When she became one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, fellow Christians comforted her and helped her to see herself as Jehovah does. She says: “There are not enough pages in my notebook to mention everyone who has helped me! I thank Jehovah with all my heart for giving me a wonderful spiritual family.” Maria’s spiritual brothers and sisters helped her to appreciate that she is precious in God’s eyes.

10. What problems afflicted Mary Magdalene? (See also pictures.)

¹⁰ Consider how Jesus helped another individual​—Mary Magdalene. She was possessed by seven demons! (Luke 8:2) She probably acted in strange ways because of being under demonic influence and, as a result, was avoided by others. During that wretched period of her life, she must have felt rejected, insecure, and helpless. Jesus likely expelled the demons that afflicted her, and she became his devoted disciple. In what other way did Jesus help Mary Magdalene to understand how precious she was to God?

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11. How did Jesus show Mary Magdalene that she was precious to God? (See also pictures.)

¹¹ Jesus invited Mary Magdalene to accompany him on his preaching tours.b As a result, she continued to benefit when she heard him teaching others. Jesus also appeared to her on the very day he was resurrected. She was one of the first disciples he spoke to on that day. Jesus even assigned her to inform his apostles that he had been resurrected. What wonderful indications that she was truly precious to Jehovah!​—John 20:11-18.

12. Explain why Lidia’s background made her feel rejected.

¹² As may have been the case with Mary Magdalene, many today struggle with feelings of rejection. Lidia, a sister from Spain, says that before she was born, her mother was thinking of getting an abortion. Even as a toddler, Lidia remembers how her mother neglected her and verbally abused her. She says: “My goal in life was to be accepted and loved by others. I feared I would never deserve that love because my mother had convinced me that I was a bad person.”

13. What helped Lidia to see herself as precious to Jehovah?

¹³ After Lidia learned the truth, personal prayer and study as well as the kind words and actions of fellow Christians helped her to understand that she is precious in Jehovah’s eyes. She says: “My husband often tells me how much he loves me. Time and again, he reminds me of my good qualities. Other dear friends have done the same.” Can you think of someone who needs help to understand how precious he or she is in Jehovah’s eyes?

HOW TO SEE OURSELVES AS JEHOVAH SEES US

14. How does 1 Samuel 16:7 help us to see the way Jehovah views people? (See also the box “Why Does Jehovah Value His People?”)

¹⁴ Remember that Jehovah does not see you the way the world does. (Read 1 Samuel 16:7.) He does not assess your worth based on your personal appearance, social status, or secular education. (Isa. 55:8, 9) So instead of measuring your value according to the world’s standards, evaluate your worth based on Jehovah’s standards. You might read Bible accounts that show that Jehovah valued those who at times doubted their worth, such as Elijah, Naomi, and Hannah. You may also want to write down experiences you’ve had that confirm that Jehovah truly loves and values you. Additionally, you can review information on the subject of self-worth found in our publications.c

15. Why did Jehovah view Daniel as “someone very precious”? (Daniel 9:23)

¹⁵ Recognize that your faithfulness makes you valuable in Jehovah’s eyes. At one point, possibly when he was in his late 90’s, the prophet Daniel felt “extremely weary” and disheartened. (Dan. 9:20, 21) How did Jehovah encourage him? God sent the angel Gabriel to remind Daniel that he was “someone very precious” and that his prayers had been heard. (Read Daniel 9:23.) What made Daniel so precious to God? Among many other qualities, it was his love of righteousness and his faithfulness. (Ezek. 14:14) Jehovah preserved that account in his Word for our comfort. (Rom. 15:4) Jehovah also listens to your prayers and values you for your love of what is right and your faithful service to him.​—Mic. 6:8, ftns.; Heb. 6:10.

16. What can help you to see Jehovah as a loving Father?

¹⁶ See Jehovah as a Father who loves you. He wants to help you, not find fault with you. (Ps. 130:3; Matt. 7:11; Luke 12:6, 7) Meditating on that has helped many with feelings of low self-worth. For example, consider Eliana, a sister from Spain who felt rejected and useless after years of verbal abuse from her husband. She says, “Whenever I feel useless, I try to imagine Jehovah carrying me in his arms and giving me love and protection.” (Ps. 28:9) Lauren, a sister from South Africa, reminds herself, “If Jehovah kindly drew me to him with the cords of love, has kept me close to him all these years, and has even used me to teach others, then he surely considers me to be valuable and useful.”​—Hos. 11:4.

17. What can help you be convinced that you have Jehovah’s approval? (Psalm 5:12) (See also picture.)

¹⁷ Be convinced that you have Jehovah’s approval. (Read Psalm 5:12.) David likened Jehovah’s approval to “a large shield” that protects righteous people. Knowing that you have Jehovah’s approval and support can protect you from becoming consumed with self-doubt. How can you know that you have Jehovah’s approval? As we have seen, Jehovah gives you that assurance by means of his Word. In addition, he uses elders, close friends, and others to remind you that you are precious in his eyes. How should you respond to such encouragement?

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18. Why should you accept words of commendation?

¹⁸ Do not reject sincere words of commendation from those who know you and love you. Keep in mind that Jehovah may be using them to help you appreciate that you have his approval. Eliana, mentioned earlier, says: “Little by little, I am learning to accept in my heart the kind words from others. It is a struggle, but I know that this is what Jehovah wants me to do.” Eliana has benefited from the loving efforts of the elders. She is now serving as a pioneer and as a remote volunteer for Bethel.

19. Why can you be confident that you are precious in God’s eyes?

¹⁹ Jesus kindly reminds us that we matter very much to our heavenly Father. (Luke 12:24) So we can be confident that Jehovah sees us as precious. May we never forget this! And may we do our best to help others see how precious they are in God’s eyes!

“The oneness,” or unity, that we enjoy is “of the spirit.” This means that it is a product of God’s active force. However, as Paul noted, our unity needs to be maintained. By whom? Really, each Christian must do his or her part “to maintain the oneness of the spirit.”

To illustrate, suppose someone gave you a new car. Who would be responsible for keeping it in good repair? The answer is obvious. You cannot blame the gift-giver if the car breaks down because you didn’t take care of it.

Similarly, although our Christian unity is a God-given gift, each of us is responsible to maintain it. If we do not have a peaceful relationship with a brother or a sister, we need to ask ourselves, ‘Am I doing my part to maintain the oneness of the spirit by resolving the matter?’

‘EARNESTLY ENDEAVOR’ TO MAINTAIN UNITY

As Paul noted, we might at times need to work hard to maintain the oneness of the spirit. That could especially be the case if a brother or a sister has offended us. Does maintaining unity always require that we approach the person and talk out the problem? Not necessarily. Ask yourself, ‘Will making an issue over this difference promote unity or cause more contention?’ Sometimes the wise course is simply to overlook it or to forgive.​—Prov. 19:11; Mark 11:25.

As the apostle Paul wrote, let us keep “putting up with one another in love.” (Eph. 4:2) One reference work says that this phrase can be expressed as “receiving them as they are.” This means that we accept that our fellow believers are sinful, as we are. Of course, we are trying to put on “the new personality.” (Eph. 4:23, 24) However, none of us can do so perfectly. (Rom. 3:23) If we accept that fact, it is easier for us to put up with one another, to be forgiving, and to thereby “maintain the oneness of the spirit.”

When we resolve personal offenses​—even if only in our heart—​we will continue to experience “the uniting bond of peace.” The Greek word that is translated “uniting bond” at Ephesians 4:3 is rendered “ligaments” at Colossians 2:19. Ligaments are strong bands of tissue that join one bone to another. In a similar way, peace as well as love for our brothers helps us remain close to them despite any differences we have with them.

So when a fellow believer offends, upsets, or irritates you, try to view that person compassionately rather than critically. (Col. 3:12) Since all humans are imperfect, you too have likely caused someone offense at some point. Keeping that in mind will help you do your part “to maintain the oneness of the spirit.”

So begins the jw.org article “Women’s Safety​—The Bible’s Perspective.” A link at the end of that article lets you download a PDF of the material, which can then be printed and folded into a four-page tract. “I printed copies and, along with another sister, took them to a women’s shelter in my congregation territory,” says a sister in the United States named Stacy.

An employee there asked if she could have additional copies to distribute to those living at the shelter. As a result, 40 more of these tracts were delivered along with 30 jw.org contact cards. On a later visit, the administrator at the shelter expressed interest in having a personal Bible study demonstrated for the residents.

Stacy and two other sisters had similar success at another shelter where five copies of the tract were accepted and more were requested. “This pamphlet will help the women here,” said one of the employees. She added, “We need this.” On a later visit, several residents gathered together to see a Bible study demonstrated and two of them expressed interest in attending the next weekend meeting at a Kingdom Hall.

Stacy says: “We are amazed at how this beautiful article has been received. When printed and folded, it is an appealing way to share the Kingdom message with this special audience. We were touched by the warm reaction we received, and we are excited to see how Jehovah will bless our efforts to reach these individuals further with the good news.”

What “thought” will Jehovah put into the hearts of the nations in the near future?

Regarding the start of the great tribulation, Revelation 17:16, 17 says: “The ten horns that you saw and the wild beast, these will hate the prostitute and will make her devastated and naked, and they will eat up her flesh and completely burn her with fire. For God put it into their hearts to carry out his thought, yes, to carry out their one thought by giving their kingdom to the wild beast.” In the past, our publications have said that the “thought” that Jehovah will put into the hearts of the nations is to destroy false religion.

However, an adjustment is needed. The “thought” that Jehovah will put into the hearts of the nations is for them to give “their kingdom to the wild beast.” To understand how this will be fulfilled, consider the following questions.

Who are the main characters in the prophecy? “The prostitute” is also called “Babylon the Great”; she represents the world empire of false religion. The “scarlet-colored wild beast” is a symbol of the peace organization that began to function in 1919 as the League of Nations and is now the United Nations. (Rev. 17:3-5) “The ten horns” represent all the governmental powers that support the wild beast.

What is the relationship between the prostitute and the scarlet-colored wild beast? The prostitute has been “sitting on” the wild beast, giving that beast her blessing and trying to influence, even dominate, it.

What will happen to the prostitute? The wild beast, along with the ten horns that support it, “will hate the prostitute.” Venting their hatred, they will plunder her wealth and expose her wickedness. And they will carry out Jehovah’s judgment respecting her, namely, that she be completely destroyed. (Rev. 17:1; 18:8) That will be the end of false religious institutions. However, before that happens, Jehovah will cause the nations to do something that is unprecedented in the history of human rulership.

What will Jehovah cause the nations to do? He will put into the hearts of the ten horns “his thought,” namely, that “they give their power and authority to the [scarlet-colored] wild beast”​—the United Nations. (Rev. 17:13) Think what that means. Will human governments simply decide on their own to hand over their power and authority to the wild beast? No! The prophecy shows that God himself will influence them to follow that course. (Prov. 21:1; compare Isaiah 44:28.) Will this be a gradual shift in power? No! Evidently it will be a sudden, decisive change. Then the newly empowered wild beast will execute Jehovah’s judgment on false religious organizations by removing them once and for all.

What, then, may we expect? We need not look for news reports that governments are slowly becoming more supportive of the United Nations. What we can expect is this: With startling suddenness, Jehovah will put it into the hearts of the nations to hand over their power to the wild beast. When that happens, we will know that the great tribulation is about to begin. Meanwhile, “let us stay awake and keep our senses” because sudden changes are soon to come!​—1 Thess. 5:6.

We all treasure the mutual encouragement that we enjoy with our Christian brothers and sisters. But that encouragement goes beyond just being together. The Bible calls our ability to strengthen one another’s faith a “spiritual gift.” (Rom. 1:11, 12) How may we use that gift to its full potential?

Give a gift of well-chosen words. For example, we can give comments at meetings that focus, not on ourselves, but on Jehovah, his Word, and his people. In conversations with fellow believers, we can choose to talk about upbuilding topics.

Encourage others by your decisions and actions. For instance, some have chosen to stay in full-time service despite facing personal challenges. Others regularly support the midweek meeting despite a demanding work schedule or a chronic health problem.

Do your expressions of faith encourage your brothers and sisters? And are you alert to accept these spiritual gifts in return?