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1. What must we do to be genuinely happy, and why? (Isaiah 48:17, 18)

OUR heavenly Father loves us deeply, and he wants us to enjoy life now and in the future. (Eccl. 3:12, 13) He created us with some outstanding talents, but he did not give us the ability to be successful at ruling ourselves or at setting our own criteria of right and wrong. (Eccl. 8:9; Jer. 10:23) He knows that in order for us to be genuinely happy, we must serve him and live by his standards.​—Read Isaiah 48:17, 18.

2. What would Satan have us believe, and how has Jehovah responded to that false claim?

² Satan would have us believe that we can be happy without Jehovah, that humans can successfully rule themselves. (Gen. 3:4, 5) Jehovah responded to that false claim by allowing rebellious humans to rule themselves for a limited time. We do not need to look far to see the sad outcome of human rule. On the other hand, the Scriptures abound with examples of men and women who led satisfying lives in Jehovah’s service. Foremost among these is Jesus Christ. First, let us look at the reasons why he chose to serve Jehovah. Then, we will examine why our heavenly Father deserves our worship. Finally, we will review some of the reasons why we choose to serve Jehovah.

WHY JESUS CHOSE TO SERVE JEHOVAH

3. What offer did Jesus receive, and what choice did he make?

³ While on earth, Jesus had to make a choice as to whom he would serve. Shortly after Jesus got baptized, Satan offered him all the kingdoms of the earth in exchange for just one act of worship. Jesus replied: “Go away, Satan! For it is written: ‘It is Jehovah your God you must worship, and it is to him alone you must render sacred service.’” (Matt. 4:8-10) Why did Jesus make that choice? Consider some of the reasons.

4-5. What are some reasons why Jesus chose to serve Jehovah?

⁴ The primary reason why Jesus chose to serve Jehovah is love​—Jesus has a deep and unbreakable affection for his Father. (John 14:31) In addition, Jesus serves Jehovah because it is the right thing to do. (John 8:28, 29; Rev. 4:11) He knows that Jehovah is the Source of life and that He is trustworthy and generous. (Ps. 33:4; 36:9; Jas. 1:17) Jehovah had always spoken the truth to Jesus and had given him everything he possessed. (John 1:14) Satan, by contrast, has caused death. He is a liar who is motivated by greed and self-interest. (John 8:44) Knowing these facts, Jesus never even considered imitating Satan by rebelling against Jehovah.​—Phil. 2:5-8.

⁵ Another reason why Jesus chose to serve Jehovah is that he looked forward to what his loyal service would accomplish. (Heb. 12:2) He knew that if he remained faithful, he would sanctify his Father’s name and provide the means to undo all the suffering caused by the Devil.

WHY JEHOVAH DESERVES OUR WORSHIP

6-7. Why do many today not serve Jehovah, but why does he deserve our worship?

⁶ Many today do not serve Jehovah because they have not yet come to know about his appealing qualities and they are unaware of all that he has done for them. That was true of those whom the apostle Paul preached to in Athens.​—Acts 17:19, 20, 30, 34.

⁷ Paul explained to his listeners that the true God “gives to all people life and breath and all things.” He added: “By him we have life and move and exist.” God is the Creator, who “made out of one man every nation of men,” so he has the right to our worship.​—Acts 17:25, 26, 28.

8. What will Jehovah never do? Explain.

⁸ As the Creator and the Sovereign of the universe, Jehovah could force people to serve him. However, Jehovah will never do that. Instead, he provides us with evidence that he exists and that he loves each one of us dearly. He wants as many people as possible to be his friends forever. (1 Tim. 2:3, 4) To that end, Jehovah has trained us to teach others about his purposes and to tell them about the good things he will do for mankind. (Matt. 10:11-13; 28:19, 20) He has organized us into congregations and has arranged for loving overseers to care for us.​—Acts 20:28.

9. How is Jehovah’s love evident?

⁹ Jehovah’s remarkable love is evident in the way he treats those who choose to ignore his existence. Consider these facts: Throughout history, billions of people have chosen to live by their own standards of right and wrong. Even so, Jehovah has kindly given them what they need to sustain their life and enjoy it. (Matt. 5:44, 45; Acts 14:16, 17) He has given them the capacity to have loving relationships, to raise a family, and to reap the rewards of their hard work. (Ps. 127:3; Eccl. 2:24) The evidence clearly shows that our heavenly Father loves all humans. (Ex. 34:6) Let us now remind ourselves of some of the reasons why we choose to serve Jehovah and how he responds to us.

WHY WE CHOOSE TO SERVE JEHOVAH

10. (a) What is the primary reason why we serve Jehovah? (Matthew 22:37) (b) How have you benefited from Jehovah’s patience? (Psalm 103:13, 14)

¹⁰ Like Jesus, we serve Jehovah primarily out of deep love and affection for Him. (Read Matthew 22:37.) We feel drawn to Jehovah when we learn about his qualities. For example, consider Jehovah’s patience with us. When the Israelites disobeyed him, he pleaded with them: “Turn back, please, from your bad ways.” (Jer. 18:11) Jehovah remembers that we are imperfect, that we are dust. (Read Psalm 103:13, 14.) When you meditate on Jehovah’s patience and his other appealing qualities, are you not moved to serve him forever?

11. What are some other reasons why we choose to serve our heavenly Father?

¹¹ We are also motivated to serve Jehovah because it is the right thing to do. (Matt. 4:10) Moreover, we know what our loyal service will accomplish. Our faithful course helps sanctify Jehovah’s name, prove the Devil a liar, and make our Father’s heart glad. And if we choose to serve Jehovah today, we have the prospect of serving him forever!​—John 17:3.

12-13. What do we learn from the experience of Jane and Pam?

¹² While still very young, we can develop a deep love for Jehovah, a love that will keep burning as we grow old. Note the example of two fleshly sisters named Jane and Pam.a They were 11 and 10 years old respectively when they first started studying the Bible. Though their parents were not interested in studying, they gave Jane and Pam permission to associate with the Witnesses as long as the girls attended church services with the family on the weekend. “What the Witnesses taught me from the Bible,” says Jane, “helped me to resist the pressure from my peers to get involved in drugs and immorality.”

¹³ When they reached their late teens, both girls became publishers. Later, they entered pioneer service while caring for their aging parents. Looking back on their experience, Jane says: “I learned firsthand that Jehovah faithfully cares for his friends and that, as 2 Timothy 2:19 says, ‘Jehovah knows those who belong to him.’” There is no doubt that Jehovah cares for those who choose to love and serve him!

14. How do our words and actions help clear Jehovah’s name of reproach? (See also pictures.)

¹⁴ We want to help clear Jehovah’s name of all reproach. Consider this scenario: You have a close friend who is kind, generous, and forgiving. One day, you hear someone accuse your friend of being cruel and dishonest. How do you react? You defend him. Similarly, when Satan and those under his influence try to ruin Jehovah’s reputation by spreading lies about Him, we respond by telling the truth about Jehovah, vigorously defending His name. (Ps. 34:1; Isa. 43:10) We show that we want to serve Jehovah whole-souled by our words and actions.

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15. How did the apostle Paul benefit from adjusting his goals? (Philippians 3:7, 8)

¹⁵ We willingly adjust our goals in life so that we can serve Jehovah acceptably or more fully. For example, the apostle Paul chose to give up prominence in his community in order to follow Christ and serve Jehovah. (Gal. 1:14) As a result, he led a rewarding life and received the opportunity to rule with Christ in heaven. He never regretted his decision to serve Jehovah, and neither will we.​—Read Philippians 3:7, 8.

16. What do we learn from Julia’s experience? (See also pictures.)

¹⁶ If we make serving Jehovah our main focus, we can have a rewarding life now and in the future. Consider the experience of a sister named Julia. Before learning the truth, Julia sang in a church choir from the time she was a young girl. A professional opera singer recognized her talent and trained her. Julia soon gained a reputation as a prodigy and performed in prestigious music halls. While she was attending a famous music school, a classmate started talking to her about God and explained that God has a name, Jehovah. Before long, Julia began studying the Bible twice a week. Eventually, she decided to focus her life on serving Jehovah instead of on pursuing a music career. That decision wasn’t easy. “Many people told me that I was wasting my gift,” she says, “but I wanted to use my life fully to serve Jehovah.” How does she feel today about that choice she made more than 30 years ago? “I have peace of mind, and I trust that Jehovah will fulfill all my heart’s desires in the future.”​—Ps. 145:16.

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CONTINUE SERVING JEHOVAH

17. How does the urgency of our times affect those who have chosen to serve God and those who have not yet done so?

¹⁷ We live in urgent times. The apostle Paul wrote: “For yet ‘a very little while,’ and ‘the one who is coming will arrive and will not delay.’” (Heb. 10:37) How does this affect us? For one thing, the time left for people to choose to serve Jehovah is reduced. (1 Cor. 7:29) And if we have already made the choice to serve God, we know that although we will have to endure trials, it will be only for “a very little while.”

18. What do Jesus and Jehovah want us to do?

¹⁸ Jesus encouraged his disciples not merely to start following him but also to keep following him. (Matt. 16:24) So if we have been serving Jehovah for years, may we be resolved not to give up. We have to work hard to keep living up to our decision to serve him. It may not be easy, but what blessings and satisfaction we can enjoy, even now!​—Ps. 35:27.

19. What do we learn from Gene’s experience?

¹⁹ Some feel that serving Jehovah involves too much sacrifice. If you are young, do you feel that you may be losing out on something if you serve Jehovah? One young brother named Gene says: “I felt that being one of Jehovah’s Witnesses was restrictive. It seemed that many of the kids I grew up with enjoyed things like partying, dating, or playing violent video games, while I had to spend my time at meetings and in the ministry.” How did this thinking affect Gene? “I started living a double life,” he says, “and for a while I had fun. But it didn’t bring me any lasting happiness. I began to think about the Bible truths I had chosen to ignore and decided to serve Jehovah wholeheartedly. Ever since then, it seems that Jehovah has responded to every one of my prayers.”

20. What should be our resolve?

²⁰ A psalmist sang to Jehovah: “Happy is the one whom you choose and bring near to reside in your courtyards.” (Ps. 65:4) May we keep the same resolve that Joshua expressed: “As for me and my household, we will serve Jehovah.”​—Josh. 24:15.

1-2. (a) What effort is required to cultivate a close friendship with someone? (b) What will we discuss in this article?

DO YOU have a close friend? How did you cultivate your friendship with him? You probably spent time with him, learned about his challenges, and got acquainted with his likes and dislikes. You discovered that he has outstanding qualities that you would like to imitate. You came to love your friend.

² Developing a close friendship with someone requires time and effort. The same can be said of cultivating a close, personal relationship with Jehovah God. This article will discuss how we can draw closer to our God and the benefits that come from doing so. First, consider why it is good to draw close to our best Friend, Jehovah.

3. Why should we meditate on the benefits that come from drawing close to Jehovah? Illustrate.

³ No doubt you agree that drawing close to Jehovah is good. But meditating on exactly how good it is can motivate us to continue drawing closer to him. (Ps. 63:6-8) For example, we know that following a balanced diet, engaging in physical activity, getting sufficient rest, and drinking enough water are all good for us. Still, many do not give much thought to these things, and they neglect their health. Yet, the more often we think about how healthy habits benefit us, the more likely we will be to maintain them. Similarly, we may know that drawing near to Jehovah is good for us, but meditating on the benefits of doing so can motivate us to continue drawing closer to our Friend.​—Ps. 119:27-30.

4. As indicated at Psalm 73:28, what feelings did the psalmist express?

⁴ Read Psalm 73:28. The writer of Psalm 73 was a Levite appointed to serve as a musician at Jehovah’s temple. He had likely worshipped Jehovah faithfully for some time. Yet, he still felt a need to remind himself and others that “drawing near to God” was good for him and them. What are some of the benefits of doing so?

“DRAWING NEAR TO GOD” BRINGS HAPPINESS

5. (a) Why does drawing closer to Jehovah bring us happiness? (b) Based on Proverbs 2:6-16, give specific examples of how Jehovah’s wisdom can benefit and protect you personally.

⁵ The closer we draw to Jehovah, the happier we will be. (Ps. 65:4) This is true for many reasons. For one thing, we benefit from applying the practical wisdom found in his Word, the Bible. Such wisdom protects us from bad influences and from making serious mistakes. (Read Proverbs 2:6-16.) Appropriately, the Bible states: “Happy is the man who finds wisdom and the man who acquires discernment.”​—Prov. 3:13.

6. What caused the psalmist to lose his joy?

⁶ Of course, even Jehovah’s friends go through periods of sadness. The writer of Psalm 73 lost his joy when he gave in to negative thinking. He became annoyed and envious because, in his mind, bad people who did not care about God or His standards had it easy. He wrongly assumed that violent and haughty people were always richer and healthier and were even immune from suffering. (Ps. 73:3-7, 12) The psalmist was so troubled that at one point he wondered if his efforts to serve Jehovah were worth it. In his sadness he exclaimed: “Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure and washed my hands in innocence.”​—Ps. 73:13.

7. How can we recover from bouts of sadness that can threaten our happiness? (See also picture.)

⁷ The psalmist did not allow sadness to paralyze him. He took action. He “entered the grand sanctuary of God,” where Jehovah corrected his thinking. (Ps. 73:17-19) When we are sad, Jehovah, our best Friend, knows about it. If we pray to him for guidance and accept the help he provides through his Word and the congregation, we will receive the inner strength to endure sadness. Even when we feel overwhelmed with anxieties, Jehovah will comfort and soothe us.​—Ps. 94:19.a

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“DRAWING NEAR TO GOD” GIVES US PURPOSE AND HOPE

8. In what other important ways is drawing near to God good for us?

⁸ Drawing near to God is good for us in two other important ways. First, it gives us a fulfilling purpose in life. Second, it gives us a solid hope for the future. (Jer. 29:11) Let us examine these benefits more closely.

9. How does drawing close to Jehovah give meaning to our life?

⁹ Drawing close to Jehovah gives our life purpose. Many today who deny God’s existence think that life has no meaning and that eventually the human race will cease to exist. However, from our study of God’s Word, we have become convinced that God “is and that he becomes the rewarder of those earnestly seeking him.” (Heb. 11:6) Even today, we live happier lives because we are doing what we were designed to do​—serve our heavenly Father, Jehovah.​—Deut. 10:12, 13.

10. What is revealed at Psalm 37:29 regarding the future of those who hope in Jehovah?

¹⁰ For many, their hope is limited to this life​—going to work, raising a family, and saving for retirement. God is not in the picture. On the other hand, Jehovah’s servants place their hope on him. (Ps. 25:3-5; 1 Tim. 6:17) We trust the God to whom we have drawn near, and we trust what he has promised us. Our future includes the prospect of worshipping him forever in Paradise.​—Read Psalm 37:29.

11. How does drawing near to God affect us, and how does it affect him?

¹¹ Drawing near to God is good for us in many other ways. For instance, Jehovah promises to forgive the sins of repentant ones who are close to him. (Isa. 1:18) As a result, we do not have to carry the weight of a guilty conscience because of past sins. (Ps. 32:1-5) And we have the pleasure of making Jehovah happy. (Prov. 23:15) Surely you can think of other blessings that result from a close friendship with God. How, though, can you keep drawing near to God?

HOW TO KEEP “DRAWING NEAR TO GOD”

12. What have you done to draw closer to God?

¹² If you are a baptized Christian, you have to a great extent already drawn close to Jehovah. You have learned many truths about Jehovah God and Christ Jesus, repented of your past sins, exercised strong faith in God, and endeavored to act in harmony with his will. To draw closer to God, however, we must continue doing these things.​—Col. 2:6.

13. What three things can help us to continue drawing closer to Jehovah?

¹³ What will help us to keep drawing closer to Jehovah? (1) We must continue reading and studying the Bible. As we do so, our goal should be more than merely learning basic facts about God. Rather, we should try to perceive what God’s will is for us and to be governed by the principles that he has set out in his Word. (Eph. 5:15-17) (2) We must strengthen our faith by meditating on the abundant evidence of his love for us. (3) We must continue to hate the things that offend Jehovah and to avoid friendship with people who practice such things.​—Ps. 1:1; 101:3.

14. In harmony with what is stated at 1 Corinthians 10:31, what are some of the things we can do in our daily lives to please Jehovah? (See also pictures.)

¹⁴ Read 1 Corinthians 10:31. It is vital that we actively pursue the things that please Jehovah. This goes beyond what we do in the ministry and at congregation meetings. Good actions that please Jehovah include what we do in our daily life. For instance, when we are honest in all things and share what we have with others, we make Jehovah happy. (2 Cor. 8:21; 9:7) He also wants us to show high regard for the gift of life. We draw closer to the Giver of life by maintaining balanced habits in eating and drinking and by caring for our health in other reasonable ways. Every effort we make to please Jehovah, even in seemingly small things, will endear us to him.​—Luke 16:10.

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15. How does Jehovah expect us to treat others?

¹⁵ Jehovah is kind to both the righteous and the unrighteous. (Matt. 5:45) He expects us to show similar consideration for others. For example, we are “to speak injuriously of no one, not to be quarrelsome, . . . displaying all mildness toward all men.” (Titus 3:2) With this in mind, we do not look down on others simply because they do not share our beliefs. (2 Tim. 2:23-25) We draw closer to Jehovah by always being kind and considerate in our dealings with all.

WE CAN DRAW “NEAR TO GOD” EVEN WHEN WE STUMBLE

16. How did the writer of Psalm 73 begin to feel after some time?

¹⁶ But what if after some time, you begin to feel that you are unworthy of Jehovah’s love? As discussed, something similar happened to the writer of Psalm 73. He lamented: “My feet had almost strayed; my steps had nearly slipped.” (Ps. 73:2) By his own admission, he had become “sour” and “unreasoning” “like a senseless beast” before Jehovah. (Ps. 73:21, 22) Did he conclude that because of his error, he was a lost cause, unworthy of Jehovah’s love?

17. (a) Even at his lowest point, what did the psalmist seem to do? (b) What lesson can we learn from his experience? (See also pictures.)

¹⁷ If the psalmist felt rejected by Jehovah, the feeling must have been only momentary. It seems that at his lowest point, he recognized a need to draw closer to God, as indicated by his words: “But now I am continually with you [Jehovah]; you have taken hold of my right hand. You guide me with your advice, and afterward you will lead me to glory.” (Ps. 73:23, 24) We too should look to Jehovah as a stabilizing rock when we feel weak or discouraged. (Ps. 73:26; 94:18) Even if our feet do stray temporarily, we can return to Jehovah with the assurance that he is “ready to forgive.” (Ps. 86:5) Especially when we are at our lowest point, we should draw closer to our God.​—Ps. 103:13, 14.

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“DRAWING NEAR TO GOD” FOREVER

18. Why is there no limit to drawing closer to Jehovah?

¹⁸ There is no limit to how closely we can draw to Jehovah and how well we can get to know him. The Bible says that Jehovah’s ways, his wisdom, and his knowledge are “beyond tracing out.”​—Rom. 11:33.

19. What assurance do the Psalms give us?

¹⁹ Psalm 79:13 states: “We, your people and the flock of your pasture, will give thanks to you forever; and we will declare your praise from generation to generation.” As you keep drawing near to God, you too can feel assured of receiving eternal blessings and confidently say: “God is the rock of my heart and my portion forever.”​—Ps. 73:26.

1-2. What is one thing that is important to Jehovah, and what does he want us to do?

FEW things are more important to Jehovah than the way we treat fellow humans. Jesus taught that we must love our neighbor as we love ourselves. (Matt. 22:37-39) That includes being kind even toward those who do not share our beliefs. When we show this kindness, we imitate Jehovah God, who “makes his sun rise on both the wicked and the good and makes it rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous.”​—Matt. 5:45.

² Although Jehovah loves all mankind, he is especially fond of those who practice what is right. (John 14:21) He wants us to imitate him. He urges us to have “intense love” for our brothers and sisters and to show them “tender affection.” (1 Pet. 4:8; Rom. 12:10) When we think of showing such love and affection to someone, we might have in mind the warm feeling of attachment we have toward a beloved relative or a dear friend.

3. What must we remember about love?

³ Love, like a houseplant, needs to be nurtured in order to grow. The apostle Paul counseled Christians: “Let your brotherly love continue.” (Heb. 13:1) Jehovah wants us to keep cultivating our love for others. This article will discuss why we should draw closer to our fellow worshippers and how we can do so continually.

WHY WE SHOULD DRAW CLOSER TO ONE ANOTHER

4. As described at Psalm 133:1, how can we maintain appreciation for our united brotherhood? (See also pictures.)

⁴ Read Psalm 133:1. We agree with the psalmist who wrote that true friendship with those who love Jehovah is “good” and “pleasant.” But just as a person could take for granted a majestic tree that he sees every day, we could take for granted the beauty of our Christian unity. We see our brothers and sisters often, perhaps several times a week. How can we maintain appreciation for them? Our love for our brothers and sisters will grow if we take time to think about how valuable each one is to the congregation and to us.

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5. What effect can our loving brotherhood have on others?

⁵ Some who attend a meeting for the first time are deeply impressed by the love we have for one another. On that basis alone, they may conclude that they have found the truth. Jesus said: “By this all will know that you are my disciples​—if you have love among yourselves.” (John 13:35) Consider the experience of Chaithra, a university student who was studying with Jehovah’s Witnesses. She accepted an invitation to attend a regional convention. After attending the first day in person, she told her Bible teacher: “I have never been hugged by my parents. But at your convention, I received 52 hugs in just one day! I felt Jehovah’s love through this spiritual family. I want to be part of that family.” Chaithra continued to progress and got baptized in 2024. Yes, when new ones see our fine works, including the love we have for one another, they are often moved to serve Jehovah.​—Matt. 5:16.

6. How can drawing closer to our brothers and sisters protect us?

⁶ Drawing closer to our brothers and sisters can serve as a protection. Paul admonished fellow Christians: “Keep on encouraging one another each day . . . so that none of you should become hardened by the deceptive power of sin.” (Heb. 3:13) If we become so discouraged that our feet are beginning to stray from the path of righteousness, Jehovah may move an observant fellow believer to provide the help we need. (Ps. 73:2, 17, 23) Such encouragement is indeed good for us.

7. What is the connection between love and unity? (Colossians 3:13, 14)

⁷ We belong to a group of people who work hard to show love to one another, so we enjoy many blessings. (1 John 4:11) For instance, love moves us to “continue putting up with one another,” and that contributes to our Christian unity. (Read Colossians 3:13, 14; Eph. 4:2-6) Thus, at our meetings, we enjoy a pleasant atmosphere matched by no other group on earth.

SHOW HONOR TO ONE ANOTHER

8. What role does Jehovah play in helping us achieve unity?

⁸ The global unity we enjoy is a miracle. Jehovah makes it possible despite our imperfections. (1 Cor. 12:25) The Bible says that we are “taught by God to love one another.” (1 Thess. 4:9) In other words, through the Scriptures, Jehovah tells us exactly what we need to do in order to draw closer to one another. We can be “taught by God” by carefully examining his teachings and applying them. (Heb. 4:12; Jas. 1:25) And that is exactly what Jehovah’s Witnesses strive to do.

9. What do we learn from Romans 12:9-13 about showing honor to one another?

⁹ How does God’s Word teach us to draw closer to one another? Consider what Paul had to say on this matter, as indicated at Romans 12:9-13. (Read.) Of special note are the words “in showing honor to one another, take the lead.” What does that mean? We should take the initiative to show “tender affection” to others by extending forgiveness, showing hospitality, and practicing generosity, among other things. (Eph. 4:32) There is no need to wait for your brother or sister to draw closer to you. You can “take the lead” in doing so. Jesus aptly said: “There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.”​—Acts 20:35.

10. How can we be industrious “in showing honor to one another”? (See also picture.)

¹⁰ Interestingly, immediately after telling us to take the lead in showing honor to one another, Paul exhorts us to “be industrious, not lazy.” Someone who is industrious is zealous and hardworking. When he is given a task, he carries it out diligently. Proverbs 3:27, 28 urges us: “Do not withhold good from those to whom you should give it if it is within your power to help.” Accordingly, when we see that someone is in need, we do what we can to come to his aid. We do not procrastinate; nor do we assume that someone else will care for the matter.​—1 John 3:17, 18.

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11. What can help us to draw closer to one another?

¹¹ Another way we can show honor to others is by being quick to forgive them when they offend us. Ephesians 4:26 says: “Do not let the sun set while you are still angry.” Why not? Verse 27 states that doing so would “give the Devil an opportunity.” In his Word, Jehovah tells us again and again to forgive one another. Colossians 3:13 urges us to “continue . . . forgiving one another freely.” Few things are as effective in drawing us closer to others as overlooking their mistakes and offenses. When we do, we help “to maintain the oneness of the spirit in the uniting bond of peace.” (Eph. 4:3) In short, forgiveness can directly contribute to our unity and peace.

12. How does Jehovah help us to be forgiving?

¹² Granted, we might find it difficult to forgive those who have hurt us. But we can succeed with the help of God’s spirit. After exhorting us to “have tender affection for one another” and to “be industrious,” the Scriptures admonish: “Be aglow with the spirit.” A person who is “aglow” is “overflowing with or radiating zeal and enthusiasm as a result of the influence” of holy spirit. (See study note on Romans 12:11.) So God’s spirit can help us to show tender affection and to forgive one another freely. Hence, we earnestly beg Jehovah to help us.​—Luke 11:13.

“THERE SHOULD BE NO DIVISIONS AMONG YOU”

13. What could create divisions among us?

¹³ The congregation is made up of “all sorts of people” from a variety of backgrounds. (1 Tim. 2:3, 4) If we are not careful, these differences could create divisions in areas of personal choice, such as dress and grooming, health care, or entertainment. (Rom. 14:4; 1 Cor. 1:10) Because God has taught us to love one another, we must be careful not to promote our personal choices as being better than those of others.​—Phil. 2:3.

14. What should we always strive to be, and why?

¹⁴ We can also prevent divisions in the congregation by striving to be refreshing and upbuilding to others at all times. (1 Thess. 5:11) In recent times, a number of people who were inactive or who were removed from the congregation have returned. We warmly welcome them! (2 Cor. 2:8) Note what happened to one sister who returned to the Kingdom Hall after being inactive for ten years. She said, “I was greeted with smiles and handshakes.” (Acts 3:19) How did those simple kindnesses affect her? She says, “It made me feel that Jehovah’s hand was guiding me back to happiness.” By being upbuilding to all, we can be used by Christ to provide refreshment to those “who are toiling and loaded down.”​—Matt. 11:28, 29.

15. What is another way we can promote unity? (See also picture.)

¹⁵ Another way we can promote unity is by means of our speech. Job 12:11 states: “Does not the ear test out words as the tongue tastes food?” Just as a good cook will always sample his food to make sure it is tasty before serving it to others, we do well to think carefully about what we will say before we say it. (Ps. 141:3) Our goal should always be to ensure that what we are about to say will be upbuilding, refreshing, and “beneficial to the hearers.”​—Eph. 4:29.

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16. Who especially should be interested in using encouraging speech?

¹⁶ Husbands and parents especially should be conscious of being upbuilding in their speech. (Col. 3:19, 21; Titus 2:4) Elders too should be a source of refreshment and comfort as shepherds of Jehovah’s flock. (Isa. 32:1, 2; Gal. 6:1) A Bible proverb reminds us: “A word spoken at the right time​—how good it is!”​—Prov. 15:23.

LOVE “IN DEED AND TRUTH”

17. How can we make sure that our love for our brothers and sisters is sincere?

¹⁷ The apostle John encourages us to “love, not in word or with the tongue, but in deed and truth.” (1 John 3:18) We want our love for our brothers and sisters to come from the heart. How can we accomplish that? The more time we spend with our brothers and sisters, the closer we will draw to one another and the stronger our love for one another will be. So create opportunities to spend time with others​—at the meetings and in the ministry. Take time to visit others. When we do, we show that we are being “taught by God to love one another.” (1 Thess. 4:9) And we will continue to experience firsthand “how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!”​—Ps. 133:1.

1-2. (a) Why can we say that we never face trials alone? (b) What will we discuss in this article?

WHEN we are confronted by serious trials, we may feel as if we were all alone on a small boat in a stormy sea. However, we do not face our trials alone. Our loving heavenly Father not only sees our struggles but also promises to help us get through them. Jehovah extends this warm assurance to his loyal servants: “I will help you.”​—Isa. 41:10.

² This article will discuss how Jehovah helps us (1) by guiding us, (2) by providing for us, (3) by protecting us, and (4) by comforting us. Jehovah assures us that no matter what challenges we face in life, he will never forget about us. He will never abandon us. So we are never alone.

JEHOVAH GUIDES US

3-4. How does Jehovah guide us? (Psalm 48:14)

³ Read Psalm 48:14. Jehovah does not expect us to guide ourselves. How does he lead his loyal worshippers today? One way he does so is through the pages of the Bible. (Ps. 119:105) By means of his inspired Word, Jehovah helps us to make decisions and cultivate qualities that lead to greater happiness now and eternal life in the future.a For example, he teaches us to let go of resentment, to be honest in all we do, and to love others intensely from the heart. (Ps. 37:8; Heb. 13:18; 1 Pet. 1:22) When we display such godly qualities, we become better parents, marriage mates, and friends.

⁴ In addition, Jehovah included accounts in his Word of real people who had trials and feelings similar to ours. (1 Cor. 10:13; Jas. 5:17) When we read these true-life accounts and apply the lessons we learn, we benefit in at least two ways. First, we come to realize that we are not alone​—others have faced similar situations and endured them successfully. (1 Pet. 5:9) And second, we learn how to cope with our trials.​—Rom. 15:4.

5. Whom does Jehovah use to guide us along the road to life?

⁵ Jehovah has also arranged for fellow believers to guide us.b For instance, circuit overseers regularly visit congregations to encourage us. Their talks strengthen our faith and help us to maintain our precious unity. (Acts 15:40–16:5) Congregation elders too take a sincere interest in each publisher’s welfare. (1 Pet. 5:2, 3) Parents guide their children spiritually, helping them to develop clear thinking ability and wholesome personal habits. (Prov. 22:6) And mature Christian women help younger sisters by setting a good example, giving practical advice, and providing warm encouragement.​—Titus 2:3-5.

6. What must we do to benefit from Jehovah’s guidance?

⁶ Jehovah has done his part by providing the guidance we need. How can we show that we appreciate what he has done for us? Proverbs 3:5, 6 says: “Trust in Jehovah with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding.” When we do, “he will make [our] paths straight,” that is, he will help us avoid many problems and enjoy a happier life. How grateful we can be that Jehovah provides us with loving, personal advice!​—Ps. 32:8.

JEHOVAH PROVIDES FOR US

7. What are some ways that Jehovah provides for us? (Philippians 4:19)

⁷ Read Philippians 4:19. In addition to guiding us spiritually, Jehovah blesses our efforts to obtain the food, clothing, and shelter that we need. (Matt. 6:33; 2 Thess. 3:12) Though it is only natural to be concerned about our physical needs, Jehovah encourages us not to be overly anxious about such matters. (See study note on Matthew 6:25.) Why? Because our Father will never abandon his faithful worshippers in their time of need. (Matt. 6:8; Heb. 13:5) We can take him at his word when he says that he will provide for us.

8. What did Jehovah do for David?

⁸ Consider the way that Jehovah helped David. During the difficult years David spent as a fugitive, Jehovah provided him and his men with what they needed to survive. Reflecting on Jehovah’s care over the years, David wrote: “I was once young and now I am old, but I have not seen anyone righteous abandoned, nor his children looking for bread.” (Ps. 37:25) Likely during your own lifetime, you too have seen Jehovah lovingly provide for his devoted servants.

9. How does Jehovah provide for his people today during times of disaster? (See also pictures.)

⁹ Jehovah also provides for his people during times of disaster. For instance, when a famine arose in the first century, Christians from various lands sent provisions to their brothers and sisters who were in need. (Acts 11:27-30; Rom. 15:25, 26) God’s people today show the same spirit of generosity. When disaster strikes, Jehovah lovingly moves his people to provide such necessities as food, water, clothing, and medicine to those living in the affected areas. Construction teams repair damaged homes and Kingdom Halls. And Jehovah’s servants are quick to provide emotional and spiritual support to those who have suffered loss.c

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10-11. What do you learn from the experience of Borys?

¹⁰ Jehovah also generously provides for those who do not yet worship him. Similarly, we look for opportunities to be kind to those who do not share our faith. (Gal. 6:10) This often results in a fine witness. Consider the experience of Borys, a school principal who lives in Ukraine. Although Borys is not one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, he always treated his Witness students with kindness and showed respect for their beliefs. When Borys decided to flee the war zone where he was living and go to a safer part of the country, our brothers helped him. Later, Borys attended the Memorial of Christ’s death. Reflecting on his experience, Borys said: “The Witnesses were very attentive to me and cared for me. I am thankful to Jehovah’s Witnesses.”

¹¹ We too can imitate our merciful heavenly Father by showing love to those in need, whether they share our beliefs or not. (Luke 6:31, 36) We hope that our efforts to love people will result in their becoming disciples of Christ. (1 Pet. 2:12) Regardless of the outcome, though, we will enjoy the greater happiness that comes from giving.​—Acts 20:35.

JEHOVAH PROTECTS US

12. What protection does Jehovah promise to provide for his people as a group? (Psalm 91:1, 2, 14)

¹² Read Psalm 91:1, 2, 14. Today, Jehovah promises to provide us with spiritual protection. He will never allow Satan to corrupt true worship. (John 17:15) And when “the great tribulation” strikes, we can have absolute confidence that Jehovah will fulfill his promise to safeguard his people not only spiritually but also physically.​—Rev. 7:9, 14.

13. In what ways does Jehovah protect us as individuals?

¹³ What protection does Jehovah provide for us as individuals? Through the Scriptures, Jehovah helps us discern right from wrong. (Heb. 5:14) When we live by the principles found in God’s Word, we shield ourselves from both spiritual and physical harm. (Ps. 91:4) Additionally, Jehovah provides protection through the congregation. (Isa. 32:1, 2) By surrounding ourselves with those who love Jehovah and who live by his principles, we receive encouragement and are strengthened to resist harmful influences.​—Prov. 13:20.

14. (a) Why does God not shield us from all trials? (b) Of what does Psalm 9:10 assure us? (See also footnote.)

¹⁴ Jehovah at times protected his worshippers in the past from physical harm. However, he did not do so in every case. Sometimes we fall victim to “unexpected events.” (Eccl. 9:11) Also, Jehovah has allowed his servants throughout history to face persecution and even death in order to prove Satan a liar. (Job 2:4-6; Matt. 23:34) The same is true today. Although Jehovah may not remove our trials, we can be sure that he will never abandon those who love him.d​—Ps. 9:10.

JEHOVAH COMFORTS US

15. How are we comforted by means of prayer, God’s Word, and fellow Christians? (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4)

¹⁵ Read 2 Corinthians 1:3, 4. At times, we experience grief, anxiety, or distress. Perhaps you are going through a distressing situation right now that makes you feel alone. Does anyone understand what you are feeling? Jehovah does. He not only feels our pain but also “comforts us in all our trials.” How? When we supplicate Jehovah in prayer, he gives us “the peace of God that surpasses all understanding.” (Phil. 4:6, 7) We also find comfort when we read in the Bible Jehovah’s words to us. The inspired expressions of love, wisdom, and hope in that treasure can lift our spirits. And Christian meetings comfort us by providing warm fellowship and Bible-based encouragement.

16. What do you learn from the experience of Nathan and Priscilla?

¹⁶ To illustrate how Jehovah provides comfort and encouragement by means of his Word, consider the experience of Nathan and Priscilla, who live in the United States. Some years ago, they decided to move to where there was a greater need for Kingdom publishers. “We trusted that Jehovah would bless our efforts,” Nathan says. However, after arriving in their new assignment, they faced unexpected health problems and financial hardships. The couple eventually had to return home, where they still continued to struggle financially. “I wondered why God hadn’t blessed us the way we thought he would,” Nathan recalls. “I even began to wonder if I had done something wrong.” In time, however, Nathan and Priscilla came to realize that God had not abandoned them in their time of need. “During those difficult times, the Bible became like a wise friend offering us encouragement and guidance,” Nathan relates. “Focusing on how Jehovah helped us to endure that hardship instead of focusing on the trial itself prepared us to face future challenges with faith.”

17. How did a sister named Helga receive comfort? (See also picture.)

¹⁷ Our brothers and sisters can provide us with additional comfort. How so? Consider the example of Helga, who lives in Hungary. For decades, she dealt with a variety of challenges that left her feeling desperate and worthless. But looking back, she can see how Jehovah comforted her through the congregation. She writes: “Jehovah has always helped me when he saw that my strength was meager because of secular work, caring for my sick child, and other trials. There has not been a day during the last 30 years that he has not kept his promise to comfort me. He often strengthens me through kind, thoughtful, and appreciative comments from others. I have often received a message, a card, or a word of commendation right when I needed it most.”

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18. How can we comfort others?

¹⁸ We have the privilege of imitating our God by comforting others. How can we do so? We can listen to them patiently, speak with them consolingly, and help them in practical ways. (Prov. 3:27) We endeavor to comfort all who suffer, including those not yet serving God. When our neighbors experience grief, illness, or anxiety, we visit them, listen to them, and share with them encouraging passages from the Bible. When we imitate Jehovah, “the God of all comfort,” we may not only help fellow believers to endure trials but also soften the hearts of unbelievers toward pure worship.​—Matt. 5:16.

JEHOVAH IS ALWAYS THERE FOR US

19. What does Jehovah do for us, and how can we imitate him?

¹⁹ Jehovah is very concerned about all those who love him. He does not abandon us when we are struggling. Just as a parent lovingly cares for a child, Jehovah cares for his faithful worshippers. He guides us, provides for us, protects us, and comforts us. We imitate our loving heavenly Father when we support and encourage others during their trials. Though challenges and heartaches may come our way, we can rest assured that Jehovah is with us. After all, he has promised: “Do not be afraid, for I am with you.” (Isa. 41:10) What confidence this gives us! We are truly never alone.

1-2. What challenges could have prevented Mark and Timothy from serving others more fully?

YOUNG brothers, do you want to do more in Jehovah’s service and be more helpful to those in your congregation? No doubt you do. How heartwarming it is to see so many young men who are willing to serve others! (Ps. 110:3) You may, however, face challenges. Do you hesitate to expand your ministry because of fear of the unknown? Have you ever held back from accepting an assignment because you lacked confidence? If so, you are not the first to feel this way.

² Mark and Timothy faced similar challenges. But they did not allow fear of the unknown or their lack of experience to stop them from serving others. Possibly, Mark was living with his mother in a comfortable home when he was invited to travel with the apostle Paul and Barnabas on their first missionary tour. (Acts 12:12, 13, 25) Mark left that familiar environment to expand his ministry. First, he moved to Antioch. Then, he accompanied Paul and Barnabas to other faraway places. (Acts 13:1-5) Similarly, Timothy was likely living with his parents when he was invited by Paul to join him in the preaching work. Being young and inexperienced, Timothy could have allowed a lack of confidence to hold him back. (Compare 1 Corinthians 16:10, 11 and 1 Timothy 4:12.) However, he accepted Paul’s invitation and enjoyed many blessings as a result.​—Acts 16:3-5.

3. (a) How much did Paul appreciate Mark and Timothy? (2 Timothy 4:6, 9, 11) (See also pictures.) (b) What questions will we consider in this article?

³ Mark and Timothy gained valuable experience and learned to shoulder weighty responsibilities in their youth. Paul appreciated these young men so much that later he wanted them at his side when he realized that his life would soon come to an end. (Read 2 Timothy 4:6, 9, 11.) What qualities endeared Mark and Timothy to Paul? How can young brothers imitate their attitude? And how can young men benefit from Paul’s fatherly advice?

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IMITATE MARK​—BE WILLING TO SERVE

4-5. How did Mark show his willingness to serve others?

⁴ According to one reference, serving, or ministering to, others implies reaching out to help them “with diligence and persistence.” Mark set a good example in this regard. When Paul refused to take him along on a second missionary trip, Mark was likely hurt and disappointed. (Acts 15:37, 38) But that did not discourage Mark from serving his brothers and sisters.

⁵ Mark accepted an assignment of service with his cousin Barnabas. Some 11 years later, Mark was among those who supported Paul during his first imprisonment in Rome. (Philem. 23, 24) In fact, Paul appreciated his support so much that he described Mark as “a source of great comfort.”​—Col. 4:10, 11.

6. How did Mark benefit from his association with mature Christians? (See footnote.)

⁶ Mark benefited from his close association with mature Christians. After spending some time with Paul in Rome, Mark joined the apostle Peter in Babylon. They developed such a close relationship that Peter called him “Mark, my son.” (1 Pet. 5:13) As they worked together, Peter likely related to his young friend many interesting details about Jesus’ life and ministry that Mark later recorded in his Gospel account.a

7. How did a young brother named Seung-Woo imitate the example of Mark? (See also picture.)

⁷ Mark kept active in his service and stayed close to mature brothers. How can you imitate Mark? If you have ever missed out on a privilege of service, be patient with yourself and keep looking for other ways to serve Jehovah and the congregation. Take as an example Seung-Woo, who now serves as an elder. When he was younger, he would compare himself with other young brothers. Some of them received privileges before he did. Seung-Woo felt overlooked and eventually opened up about this to mature brothers. One elder suggested that he do what he could to serve others even if his good deeds sometimes went unnoticed. That advice moved Seung-Woo to make himself available to assist the elderly and those who needed transportation to the meetings. Looking back, he says: “I came to understand what it means to serve others more fully. I discovered the joy that comes from giving practical help to others.”

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IMITATE TIMOTHY​—SHOW LOVING CONCERN FOR OTHERS

8. Why did Paul choose Timothy as a traveling companion? (Philippians 2:19-22)

⁸ Paul needed courageous traveling companions at his side when he returned to cities where he had faced opposition. He first selected an experienced Christian named Silas to accompany him. (Acts 15:22, 40) Paul later also chose Timothy as his associate. What stood out about Timothy? For one thing, he had a good reputation. (Acts 16:1, 2) He also genuinely cared about people.​—Read Philippians 2:19-22.

9. How did Timothy show that he truly cared about his brothers and sisters?

⁹ From the beginning of his ministry with Paul, Timothy showed that he cared more about others than about himself. For that reason, Paul could confidently leave him in Beroea to encourage the new disciples there. (Acts 17:13, 14) On that occasion, Timothy no doubt benefited from the example of Silas, who also remained in Beroea. Later, though, Paul sent Timothy on his own to Thessalonica to strengthen the Christians in that city. (1 Thess. 3:2, ftn.) Over the next 15 years or so, Timothy learned to “weep with those who [wept],” showing empathy for any who were suffering. (Rom. 12:15; 2 Tim. 1:4) How can young Christian men imitate Timothy?

10. How did a brother named Woo Jae learn to show more personal interest in others?

¹⁰ A brother named Woo Jae learned to show more personal interest in others. When he was a young adult, Woo Jae found it difficult to engage older brothers and sisters in conversation. So he simply greeted them at the Kingdom Hall and walked away. An elder suggested that Woo Jae start conversations by telling his fellow believers what he appreciated about them. The elder also urged him to think about what the other person might be interested in. Woo Jae applied this advice in his interactions with others. An elder today, Woo Jae says: “I now find it easier to have meaningful conversations with people of different ages. I feel good knowing that I have a better understanding of other people’s concerns. This has been very useful to me in helping my fellow believers.”

11. How can young brothers develop personal interest in others who are in their congregation? (See also picture.)

¹¹ You young brothers can likewise learn to show personal interest in others. When at meetings, take an interest in individuals of different ages and backgrounds. Ask them how they are doing, and then listen. In time, you may realize how you can help them. Perhaps you will learn that an older couple need help using the JW Library^® app. Or you may learn that they do not have plans to work with anyone in the ministry. Could you help such ones with their electronic devices or arrange to work with them in the preaching work? By taking the initiative to help others, you will set a fine example for all.

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BENEFIT FROM PAUL’S FATHERLY ADVICE

12. How can young men benefit from Paul’s advice to Timothy?

¹² Paul gave Timothy practical advice to help him succeed in his life and ministry. (1 Tim. 1:18; 2 Tim. 4:5) You young brothers can also benefit from Paul’s fatherly advice. How? Read Paul’s two letters to Timothy as if they were written to you, and see what counsel you can apply in your life. Consider a few examples.

13. What is involved in developing a personal attachment to Jehovah?

¹³ “Train yourself with godly devotion as your aim.” (1 Tim. 4:7b) What is godly devotion? It is a personal attachment to Jehovah along with a desire to do what pleases him. Since we are not born with this quality, we need to cultivate it. How? The Greek word rendered “train yourself” was often used to describe the rigorous training of athletes who prepared for a contest. These athletes needed self-discipline. We too need self-discipline in order to develop habits that will draw us closer to Jehovah.

14. What should be our goal when we read the Bible? Illustrate.

¹⁴ As you develop the habit of reading the Bible, keep in mind your goal of drawing closer to Jehovah. For example, what can you learn from Jesus’ encounter with a rich young ruler? (Mark 10:17-22) The young man believed that Jesus was the Messiah but lacked faith to follow him. Even so, Jesus “felt love for him.” Are you not touched by the way Jesus spoke to this young man? Obviously, Jesus wanted him to make a wise decision. Jesus was also reflecting Jehovah’s love for the young man. (John 14:9) As you think about this account and your circumstances, ask yourself, ‘What do I need to do to draw closer to Jehovah and to serve others more fully?’

15. Why should a young brother give attention to the example he sets? Illustrate. (1 Timothy 4:12, 13)

¹⁵ “Become an example to the faithful ones.” (Read 1 Timothy 4:12, 13.) Paul urged Timothy to develop not only skills​—such as reading and teaching—​but also qualities​—such as love, faith, and chasteness. Why? A good example speaks louder than words. Suppose you are assigned to present a talk about how to increase our zeal in the ministry. You will feel more confident talking about this subject if you are giving your best in the ministry. Your example will add weight to your words.​—1 Tim. 3:13.

16. (a) In what five areas can young Christians serve as an example? (b) How can a young brother become an example “in speaking”?

¹⁶ As indicated at 1 Timothy 4:12, Paul mentions five areas in which a young brother can serve as an example. As a personal study project, why not reflect on each of those areas? For instance, suppose you want to be a better example “in speaking.” Think about the ways you could use your speech to build up others. If you are still living at home with your parents, could you express appreciation more often for what they are doing for you? After the meetings, could you tell someone who had a share in the program what you appreciated about his presentation? You might also try to give comments in your own words at the meetings. Your efforts to become an example in speaking will show that you are making spiritual advancement.​—1 Tim. 4:15.

17. What will help a young brother to reach his spiritual goals? (2 Timothy 2:22)

¹⁷ “Flee from youthful desires, but pursue righteousness.” (Read 2 Timothy 2:22.) Paul urged Timothy to fight desires that could distract him from his spiritual goals and damage his relationship with Jehovah. You may also realize that certain activities, though not wrong in themselves, may leave you little time for spiritual pursuits. For example, think of how much time you spend participating in sports, browsing the Internet, or playing video games. Could you use some of that time for theocratic activities? Perhaps you can offer to help maintain the local Kingdom Hall or to support the local cart witnessing program. If you participate in such activities, you will likely make new friends who will help you to set and reach spiritual goals.

SERVING OTHERS BRINGS BLESSINGS

18. Why can we say that Mark and Timothy led full and satisfying lives?

¹⁸ Mark and Timothy made sacrifices to serve others more completely, and they led full and satisfying lives. (Acts 20:35) To serve his fellow believers, Mark traveled to different parts of the world. He also wrote a dynamic account of Jesus’ life and ministry. Timothy helped Paul to establish congregations and to build up the brothers and sisters. Obviously, Jehovah was pleased with the self-sacrificing spirit shown by Mark and Timothy.

19. Why should young brothers give attention to Paul’s advice to Timothy, and what will be the result?

¹⁹ The affection Paul had for Timothy can be clearly seen in the letters he wrote to his young friend. These inspired letters also reveal that Jehovah loves you young men very much. He wants you to succeed. So take to heart Paul’s fatherly advice, and develop your desire to serve others more fully. If you do, you will enjoy an enriching life now and you will “get a firm hold on the real life” to come.​—1 Tim. 6:18, 19.

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