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The Watchtower — Study Edition · September, 2023

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Samson pushing two pillars with all his might as the building collapses.

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SEPTEMBER 2023

STUDY ARTICLES FOR: NOVEMBER 6–DECEMBER 10, 2023

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COVER PICTURE:

Jehovah strengthened Samson to execute His judgment against the Philistines (See study article 37, paragraph 15)

Table of Contents

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Table of Contents

IN THIS ISSUE

Study Article 37: November 6-12, 2023

2 Rely on Jehovah, as Samson Did

Study Article 38: November 13-19, 2023

8 Young Ones​—How Will Your Life Turn Out?

Study Article 39: November 20-26, 2023

14 Let Mildness Be Your Strength

Study Article 40: November 27, 2023–December 3, 2023

20 Like Peter, You Can Persevere

Study Article 41: December 4-10, 2023

26 Lessons We Can Learn From Peter’s Two Letters

32 Research Tip

Rely on Jehovah, as Samson Did

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STUDY ARTICLE 37

Rely on Jehovah, as Samson Did

“Sovereign Lord Jehovah, remember me, please, and strengthen me.”​—JUDG. 16:28.

SONG 30 My Father, My God and Friend

PREVIEWa

1-2. Why should the account of Samson interest us?

WHAT comes to your mind when you hear the name Samson? You likely think of a man of outstanding strength. That is true. But Samson made a bad decision that led to painful results. Still, Jehovah focused on Samson’s overall record of faithfulness, which He included in the Bible for our benefit.

2 Jehovah used Samson to accomplish amazing things to help His chosen people, Israel. Centuries after Samson’s death, Jehovah inspired the apostle Paul to include Samson’s name in a list of outstanding men of faith. (Heb. 11:32-34) Samson’s example can encourage us. He relied on Jehovah, even during challenging circumstances. Let us consider how we can draw encouragement as well as learn other practical lessons from his example.

SAMSON TRUSTED IN JEHOVAH

3. What assignment did Samson receive?

3 When Samson was born, the Philistines were ruling over the nation of Israel and oppressing it. (Judg. 13:1) Their harsh rulership brought great suffering to the Israelites. Jehovah chose Samson to “take the lead in saving Israel out of the hand of the Philistines.” (Judg. 13:5) What a difficult task! To fulfill this challenging assignment, Samson would have to rely on Jehovah.

Samson picking up a jawbone of a donkey as the Philistine army approaches him.

Samson trusted in Jehovah and was adaptable. He used what was available to him to accomplish God’s will (See paragraphs 4-5)

4. How did Jehovah help Samson to free himself from the Philistines? (Judges 15:14-16)

4 Consider an example of Samson’s trust in Jehovah and of the support that God supplied. On one occasion, a Philistine military force had come to capture Samson at Lehi, evidently in Judah. The men of Judah were afraid, so they decided to hand Samson over to the enemy. Samson’s own people bound him securely with two new ropes and brought him to the Philistines. (Judg. 15:9-13) However, “Jehovah’s spirit empowered” Samson and he freed himself from the ropes. He then “found a fresh jawbone of a male donkey,” picked it up, and used it to strike down 1,000 Philistine men!​—Read Judges 15:14-16.

5. What does Samson’s use of a donkey’s jawbone reveal about his confidence in Jehovah?

5 Why did Samson use the jawbone of a donkey? It was an unconventional weapon, to say the least! No doubt Samson knew that his success depended on Jehovah, not on which weapon he used. Yes, this faithful man used what was available to him to accomplish Jehovah’s will. Clearly, as a result of his reliance on Jehovah, Samson was blessed with great success.

6. When fulfilling our theocratic assignments, what can we learn from Samson?

6 We too can be strengthened by Jehovah to accomplish our assignments, even those that seem overwhelming. God can do so in a manner that may amaze us. Trust that Jehovah, who empowered Samson, will help you to do His will as long as you rely on Him for help.​—Prov. 16:3.

7. What example demonstrates the importance of our looking to Jehovah for his direction?

7 Many brothers and sisters who are involved in theocratic construction projects have shown trust in Jehovah. In the past, brothers usually designed and constructed most new Kingdom Halls and other buildings. Eventually, though, the needs of Jehovah’s growing organization called for an adjustment. The responsible brothers sought Jehovah’s direction and tried new methods, such as purchasing facilities and renovating them. “At first, it was not easy for some to embrace this new approach,” says Robert, who in recent years has worked with many of our building projects around the world. He continues: “It was very different from what we had been doing for years. But the brothers were willing to adapt, and it has become evident that Jehovah is blessing these adjustments.” This is just one example of how Jehovah is guiding his people to accomplish his will. From time to time, all of us do well to ask ourselves, ‘Am I looking for Jehovah’s direction and remaining adaptable in my service to him?’

SAMSON TOOK ADVANTAGE OF JEHOVAH’S PROVISIONS

8. On one occasion when Samson became very thirsty, what did he do?

8 You may have read of other instances when Samson performed amazing deeds. Single-handedly, he fought off a lion and later struck down 30 men in the Philistine city of Ashkelon. (Judg. 14:5, 6, 19) Samson knew that he could never have done such things without Jehovah’s help. That was evident on one occasion when he became very thirsty after striking down 1,000 Philistines. What did he do? Rather than depend on himself to deal with his thirst, he called out to Jehovah for help.​—Judg. 15:18.

9. How did Jehovah respond to Samson’s plea for help? (Judges 15:19 and footnote)

9 Jehovah answered Samson’s cry for help by miraculously creating a source of water. When Samson drank from it, “his strength returned and he revived.” (Read Judges 15:19 and footnote.) Apparently, this new water source still existed years later when the prophet Samuel was inspired to write the book of Judges. The Israelites who saw that flowing water may have been reminded that Jehovah can be relied on to help his faithful worshippers in their time of need.

Samson scooping water up with his hands from a spring. Insets: 1. A JW Broadcasting® program. 2. A Bible and a variety of Bible-based publications. 3. Brothers and sisters arrive at a Kingdom Hall.

Samson was energized after he drank the water that Jehovah provided. We do well to take advantage of the provisions Jehovah makes available to keep us spiritually strong (See paragraph 10)

10. What is involved in our seeking Jehovah’s help? (See also picture.)

10 We too need to look to Jehovah for help no matter what talents or abilities we may have or what we have accomplished in his service. We should modestly accept the fact that true success is possible only when we rely on Jehovah. Just as Samson was energized when he drank the water that Jehovah provided, we will be spiritually strengthened when we take advantage of all the provisions Jehovah makes available to us.​—Matt. 11:28.

11. How can we take full advantage of Jehovah’s help? Illustrate.

11 Consider the example of Aleksey, one of our Russian brothers who is enduring serious persecution. What has helped him to stay strong under very trying circumstances? He and his wife have established a good spiritual routine. He says: “I try to keep up with my spiritual routine of personal study and daily Bible reading. Every morning, my wife and I discuss the daily text and pray to Jehovah together.” What does this teach us? Rather than depend on ourselves, we should rely on Jehovah. How? By building up our faith through a good routine of personal Bible study and other theocratic activities. Jehovah, in turn, will richly bless our efforts to serve him. He strengthened Samson, and He can certainly strengthen us.

SAMSON DID NOT GIVE UP

12. What bad decision did Samson make, and how could this have differed from his earlier experiences?

12 Samson was imperfect like us, so at times he made bad choices. One decision in particular that he made led to tragic consequences. After Samson had served as judge for a while, he “fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek whose name was Delilah.” (Judg. 16:4) Previously, Samson had been engaged to a Philistine woman, but that union “was from Jehovah,” who “was looking for an opportunity against the Philistines.” Later, Samson stayed in the house of a prostitute in the Philistine city of Gaza. On that occasion, God empowered Samson to carry away the doors of the city gate, weakening the city. (Judg. 14:1-4; 16:1-3) The case of Delilah may have been different, though, because she was likely an Israelite.

13. How did Delilah maneuver Samson into a bad situation?

13 Delilah accepted a large sum of money from the Philistines in return for betraying Samson. Was he so trusting​—so blinded by his love for her—​that he failed to discern what Delilah was up to? Whatever the case, Delilah repeatedly pressured Samson to reveal the source of his strength, and he ultimately gave in to her demands. Sadly, Samson allowed himself to get into a situation that led to the loss of his strength and the loss of Jehovah’s approval for a time.​—Judg. 16:16-20.

14. What consequences did Samson experience because he trusted Delilah?

14 Samson experienced painful consequences because of trusting Delilah rather than Jehovah. The Philistines captured and blinded Samson. He was imprisoned in Gaza, whose people he had earlier humiliated, and he became a lowly grinder of grain. Then he was humiliated when the Philistines gathered for a celebration. They offered a great sacrifice to their false god Dagon, as if he had given Samson into their hands. They brought Samson from prison to the party to provide “some amusement”​—to make fun of him.​—Judg. 16:21-25.

Samson pushing two pillars with all his might as the building collapses.

Jehovah strengthened Samson to execute His judgment against the Philistines (See paragraph 15)

15. How did Samson show that he again relied on Jehovah? (Judges 16:28-30) (See cover picture.)

15 Samson had made a serious mistake, but he did not give up. He looked for an opportunity to fulfill his God-given assignment against the Philistines. (Read Judges 16:28-30.) Samson begged Jehovah: “Let me take revenge on the Philistines.” The true God answered Samson’s plea and restored his miraculous strength. As a result, Samson was more successful against the Philistines on this occasion than ever before.

16. What can we learn from Samson’s mistake?

16 Although Samson experienced the painful consequences of his mistake, he did not stop trying to do Jehovah’s will. Even if we make a mistake and need reproof or lose a privilege, we must not give up. Remember, Jehovah does not give up on us. (Ps. 103:8-10) Despite our mistakes, we can still be useful to Jehovah, just as Samson was.

Collage: 1. A grieved brother with an open Bible next to him. 2. The brother talks with two elders. 3. He meditates on what he is reading on his tablet. 4. He listens attentively during a congregation meeting. 5. He gives a talk at a congregation meeting.

Samson likely felt terrible about his mistake, but he did not give up​—neither should we (See paragraphs 17-18)

17-18. What do you find encouraging about Michael’s example? (See also picture.)

17 Consider the example of a young brother named Michael. He was busy in theocratic activities, serving as a ministerial servant and a regular pioneer. Sadly, though, he made a mistake, which resulted in the loss of his congregation privileges. “Until this point,” he says, “things were going full steam ahead in my service to Jehovah. Then all of a sudden, it felt as if I had hit a brick wall. I never thought that Jehovah would abandon me, but I did wonder if my relationship with him would ever be the same again or if I would ever be able to serve him in the congregation as fully as I had.”

18 Commendably, Michael did not give up. He adds: “I focused on repairing my relationship with Jehovah by regularly opening up my heart to him in prayer, studying, and meditating.” In time, Michael regained his good standing in the congregation. He now serves as an elder and a regular pioneer. He notes: “The support and encouragement I received, especially from the elders, helped me to realize that Jehovah still loves me. I can once again serve in the congregation with a clean conscience. This experience has taught me that Jehovah will forgive anyone who is truly repentant.” We can be confident that Jehovah will use us and bless us too even if we have made mistakes, provided that we do all we can to correct our ways and continue to rely on him.​—Ps. 86:5; Prov. 28:13.

19. How has Samson’s example strengthened you?

19 In this article, we have reviewed a few of the fascinating events in the life of Samson. He was not perfect; yet, he did not give up in his efforts to serve Jehovah, even after his mistake with Delilah. And Jehovah did not give up on him. God once again used Samson in a mighty way. Jehovah still considered him to be a man of outstanding faith, including him in the list of faithful ones found in Hebrews chapter 11. How encouraging it is to know that we serve such a loving heavenly Father who yearns to strengthen us, especially when we are weak! So like Samson, let us beg Jehovah: “Remember me, please, and strengthen me.”​—Judg. 16:28.

SONG 3 Our Strength, Our Hope, Our Confidence

a Samson​—the name of this Bible character is known to many, even to people with little knowledge of the Scriptures. His story has been featured by playwrights, songwriters, and moviemakers. Yet, the account of his life is no mere tale. We can learn much from this man of great faith.

Young Ones​—How Will Your Life Turn Out?

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STUDY ARTICLE 38

Young Ones​—How Will Your Life Turn Out?

“Discernment will safeguard you.”​—PROV. 2:11.

SONG 135 Jehovah’s Warm Appeal: “Be Wise, My Son”

PREVIEWa

1. What difficult situation did Jehoash, Uzziah, and Josiah face?

IMAGINE becoming a king of God’s people when you are just a child or a teenager! How would you use your power and authority? The Bible tells us about several young ones who became kings of Judah. For example, Jehoash was just 7 years old, Uzziah was 16, and Josiah was 8. Think of the pressure they felt! Difficult as their situation was, all of them had the help needed to overcome challenges and to lead productive lives.

2. Why should we give attention to the examples of Jehoash, Uzziah, and Josiah?

2 We are not kings or queens, but we can learn valuable lessons from these three Bible characters. They made good decisions, but they also made bad ones. Using their examples, we will see why we need to choose good associates, remain humble, and keep seeking Jehovah.

CHOOSE GOOD ASSOCIATES

A mature sister giving advice to a younger sister about clothes on display in a store window. One mannequin wears a short skirt while the other mannequin wears a long skirt.

It is possible today to follow Jehoash’s example by listening to good associates (See paragraphs 3, 7)c

3. How did King Jehoash respond to High Priest Jehoiada’s instruction?

3 Imitate Jehoash’s wise decisions. When he was young, King Jehoash made a wise decision. Being without a father, he followed the direction of faithful High Priest Jehoiada. That priest instructed Jehoash as if he were his own son. In response, Jehoash wisely decided to take the lead in pure worship and serve Jehovah. Jehoash even arranged for Jehovah’s temple to be repaired.​—2 Chron. 24:1, 2, 4, 13, 14.

4. How do we benefit when we treasure Jehovah’s commandments? (Proverbs 2:1, 10-12)

4 If you are being taught to love Jehovah and to live by his standards, you are being given a valuable gift. (Read Proverbs 2:1, 10-12.) Parents can provide training in many ways. Consider how the father of a sister named Katya helped her to make good decisions. Each day as her father took her to school, he would discuss the daily text with her. “Those discussions,” she says, “helped me to handle difficult situations that came up during the day.” What, though, if the Bible-based direction your parents give you seems to restrict your freedom? What can help you to accept their guidance? A sister named Anastasia recalls that her parents took the time to explain why they made certain rules. She states, “That helped me to accept the limitations, not as mere restrictions, but as loving protection.”

5. How will your actions affect your parents and Jehovah? (Proverbs 22:6; 23:15, 24, 25)

5 As you apply the Scriptural advice you receive, you will make your parents happy. More important, you will make God happy and will build a lasting friendship with him. (Read Proverbs 22:6; 23:15, 24, 25.) Does that not give you good reason to imitate the example of Jehoash when he was young?

6. Whose advice did Jehoash start listening to, and with what results? (2 Chronicles 24:17, 18)

6 Learn from Jehoash’s bad decisions. After Jehoiada died, Jehoash chose bad associates. (Read 2 Chronicles 24:17, 18.) He decided to listen to the princes of Judah who did not love Jehovah. You likely agree that Jehoash should have avoided those troublemakers. (Prov. 1:10) Instead, he listened to his so-called friends. In fact, when Jehoash’s cousin Zechariah tried to correct him, Jehoash had him put to death. (2 Chron. 24:20, 21; Matt. 23:35) How terrible and foolish! Jehoash began his life well, but sadly he became an apostate and a murderer. Finally, his own servants killed him. (2 Chron. 24:22-25) How different his life would have turned out had he continued to listen to Jehovah and to those who loved Him! What lesson would you like to take away from that example?

7. Whom should you choose as friends? (See also picture.)

7 One lesson we can learn from Jehoash’s bad decision is that we need to choose friends who will be a good influence on us​—friends who love Jehovah and who want to make him happy. We do not need to limit our association to those in our own age group. Remember, Jehoash was much younger than his friend Jehoiada. Regarding your choice of friends, ask yourself: ‘Do they help me to strengthen my faith in Jehovah? Are they encouraging me to live by God’s standards? Do they talk about Jehovah and his valuable truths? Do they show respect for God’s standards? Do they just tell me what I might want to hear, or do they have the courage to correct me if I stray?’ (Prov. 27:5, 6, 17) Frankly, if your friends do not love Jehovah, you do not need them. But if you have friends who love Jehovah, hang on to them​—they will be good for you!​—Prov. 13:20.

8. If we use social media, what should we take into consideration?

8 Social media can be an efficient way to stay in touch with family and friends. However, many people use this form of communication to impress others, posting photos and videos of what they have bought or done. If you use social media, ask yourself: ‘Is my motive to impress others? Is my goal to build others up, or is it to boost my image? Am I allowing the people who use this tool to influence my thinking, speech, and actions in a negative way?’ Brother Nathan Knorr, who served as a member of the Governing Body, gave this advice: “Don’t try to please men. You will wind up pleasing no one. Please Jehovah, and you will please all those who love Jehovah.”

THE NEED TO STAY HUMBLE

9. What did Jehovah help Uzziah to do? (2 Chronicles 26:1-5)

9 Imitate Uzziah’s good decisions. As a youth, King Uzziah was humble. He learned “to fear the true God.” And Jehovah blessed him for most of his 68 years. (Read 2 Chronicles 26:1-5.) Uzziah defeated many of the nation’s enemies and strengthened Jerusalem’s defenses. (2 Chron. 26:6-15) Uzziah was surely happy with all that God had helped him to do.​—Eccl. 3:12, 13.

10. How did things turn out for Uzziah?

10 Learn from Uzziah’s bad decisions. King Uzziah was accustomed to having others follow his instructions. Did that make him think he could do anything he wanted? Well, one day Uzziah decided to enter Jehovah’s temple and presumptuously tried to burn incense on the altar, which kings were not allowed to do. (2 Chron. 26:16-18) High Priest Azariah tried to correct him, but Uzziah got very angry. Sadly, Uzziah ruined his record of faithful service and was punished with leprosy. (2 Chron. 26:19-21) How different his life would have turned out had he remained humble!

Collage: 1. A sister prays before going on stage at a circuit assembly. 2. A brother interviews her and another sister. 3. The sister gives credit to Jehovah when others praise her after the program.

Rather than boast about our accomplishments, we should give Jehovah the credit for what we are able to do (See paragraph 11)d

11. What actions may show whether we are humble? (See also picture.)

11 When Uzziah became powerful, he forgot that Jehovah was the Source of his strength and prosperity. What is the lesson? We do well to remind ourselves that our blessings and privileges come from Jehovah. Rather than boast about our accomplishments, we should give Jehovah the credit for what we are able to do.b (1 Cor. 4:7) We must humbly realize that we are imperfect and need discipline. A brother in his 60’s wrote: “I have learned not to take myself too seriously. When I receive discipline for the childish mistakes that I sometimes make, I try to get back up and keep moving forward.” The reality is that when we fear Jehovah and keep a humble view of ourselves, our life will turn out well.​—Prov. 22:4.

KEEP SEARCHING FOR JEHOVAH

12. When he was a youth, how did Josiah search for Jehovah? (2 Chronicles 34:1-3)

12 Imitate Josiah’s good decisions. Josiah was a teenager when he started to search for Jehovah. He wanted to learn about Jehovah and do His will. However, life was not easy for this young king. He had to take a stand for pure worship when false worship was prevalent. And indeed he did! Before Josiah was 20 years old, he began to remove false worship from the nation.​—Read 2 Chronicles 34:1-3.

13. What does dedication to Jehovah mean to you?

13 Even if you are very young, you can decide to imitate Josiah by searching for Jehovah and learning to appreciate His qualities. That fine course will move you to dedicate yourself to him. What will that dedication mean in your daily life? Luke, who got baptized at age 14, says, “From now on, I will put serving Jehovah first in my life and will try to make him happy.” (Mark 12:30) What a blessing it will be for you if you desire to do the same!

14. Give examples of how some youths are imitating King Josiah.

14 What challenges might you face as a young servant of Jehovah? Johan, who got baptized at age 12, comments on the pressure that his classmates put on him to use electronic cigarettes​—vaping. To find strength to resist that pressure, Johan reminds himself that vaping could negatively affect both his health and his friendship with Jehovah. Rachel, baptized at age 14, explains what helps her to cope with the challenges she faces at school. She notes: “I try to relate what I see to something spiritual. For example, a history lesson may call to my mind a Bible account or a prophecy. Or a conversation may remind me of a useful scripture I can share with someone.” The challenges you face may differ from those King Josiah faced, but you can be wise and loyal, as he was. Dealing with trials as a youth will prepare you to face other challenges in the years ahead.

15. What helped Josiah to serve Jehovah faithfully? (2 Chronicles 34:14, 18-21)

15 As an adult, King Josiah began to have the temple renovated. During that work, “the book of Jehovah’s Law given through Moses” was found. On hearing it read, the king was moved to take action by complying with what it said. (Read 2 Chronicles 34:14, 18-21.) Would you like to read the Bible regularly? If you are trying, how is it going? Do you keep track of verses that may help you personally? Luke, mentioned earlier, writes down in a journal interesting points that he finds. Would doing something similar help you to recall verses or points that you like? The more you get to know and love the Bible, the more you will want to serve Jehovah. And like King Josiah, you will be moved to action by God’s Word.

16. Why did Josiah make a serious mistake, and what is the lesson for us?

16 Learn from Josiah’s bad decision. When Josiah was about 39 years old, he made a mistake that cost him his life. He trusted in himself instead of asking Jehovah for guidance. (2 Chron. 35:20-25) There is a lesson here. No matter how old we are or how long we have been studying the Bible, we must keep searching for Jehovah. That involves regularly praying for his guidance, studying his Word, and benefiting from the advice of mature Christians. We will then be less likely to make big mistakes and more likely to be happy.​—Jas. 1:25.

YOUNG ONES​—YOUR LIFE CAN TURN OUT WELL

17. What can we conclude from the accounts of the three kings of Judah?

17 Youth is a time of fine opportunities. The record of Jehoash, Uzziah, and Josiah illustrates that young ones can make wise choices and follow a course that pleases Jehovah. True, a good outcome is not guaranteed, as we noted. Nonetheless, we can imitate the good that these kings did and avoid making the mistakes they made. Then we can look forward to a good outcome.

David slinging a stone at Goliath on the battlefield.

Young David drew close to Jehovah. He gained God’s approval, and his life turned out well (See paragraph 18)

18. What Scriptural examples show that your life can turn out well? (See also picture.)

18 The Scriptures contain accounts of other youths who drew close to Jehovah, had his favor, and saw their life turn out well. David was one of them. At a young age, he chose God’s side and later became a loyal king. Granted, he on occasion made mistakes, but overall God approved of him. (1 Ki. 3:6; 9:4, 5; 14:8) You can be encouraged and motivated by studying about David’s life and faithful service. Or you can focus your study project on the example of Mark or of Timothy. You will see that they served Jehovah from a young age and gained a lasting record of God’s approval; it turned out very well for them.

19. How can your life turn out?

19 How your life turns out may be determined by how you use it right now. Your trusting in Jehovah and not in your own understanding will lead to His directing your steps. (Prov. 20:24) You can have a happy and rewarding life. Remember, Jehovah values what you do for him. What better way could you use your life than by serving our loving heavenly Father?

SONG 144 Keep Your Eyes on the Prize!

a Young ones, Jehovah knows that you face challenges that could test your friendship with him. How can you make wise decisions that will please your heavenly Father? We will consider the examples of three boys who became kings of Judah. See what you can learn from their decisions.

b See the box “Beware of the ‘Humble Brag’” found in the jw.org article “How Important Is Online Popularity?”

c PICTURE DESCRIPTION: A mature sister offers wise advice to a younger sister.

d PICTURE DESCRIPTION: A sister who shares in an assembly part relies on Jehovah and gives him credit.

Let Mildness Be Your Strength

pp. 14–19

STUDY ARTICLE 39

Let Mildness Be Your Strength

“A slave of the Lord does not need to fight, but needs to be gentle toward all.”​—2 TIM. 2:24.

SONG 120 Imitate Christ’s Mildness

PREVIEWa

1. What may we be asked about at work or at school?

HOW do you feel when a workmate or a schoolmate asks you about your beliefs? Do you feel nervous? Most of us do. But such a question may offer insight into the other person’s thinking or beliefs, giving us an opportunity to share the good news. At times, though, a person may raise a question in a challenging manner. That should not surprise us. After all, some have been misinformed about our beliefs. (Acts 28:22) Furthermore, we are living in “the last days,” a time when many are “not open to any agreement” and are even “fierce.”​—2 Tim. 3:1, 3.

2. Why is mildness desirable?

2 You may wonder, ‘How can I be gentle and gracious when someone challenges my Bible-based beliefs?’ What will help you? In a word​—mildness. A mild person does not get easily upset but is able to control himself when faced with frustrations and uncertainties. (Prov. 16:32) You may feel, though, that it is easier said than done. How can you develop mildness? How can you respond with mildness when someone challenges your beliefs? And if you are a parent, how can you help your children to learn how to defend their faith with mildness? Let us see.

HOW TO DEVELOP MILDNESS

3. Why can it be said that mildness is a strength, not a weakness? (2 Timothy 2:24, 25)

3 Mildness is a strength, not a weakness. It takes inner strength to keep calm when facing a trying situation. Mildness is one aspect of “the fruitage of the spirit.” (Gal. 5:22, 23) A form of the Greek word rendered “mildness” was at times used to describe a wild horse that had been tamed. Picture a wild horse that becomes gentle. That is, gentle, yet strong. As humans, how can we develop mildness and at the same time be strong? Not by sheer willpower. A key is praying for God’s spirit, asking him to help us cultivate this beautiful quality. Experience shows that this can be done. Many Witnesses have responded mildly when confronted by opposers, leaving a favorable impression on observers. (Read 2 Timothy 2:24, 25.) How can you make mildness one of your strengths?

4. What can we learn about mildness from the example of Isaac?

4 The Bible contains many accounts that highlight the value of mildness. Take the example of Isaac. When he settled in the Philistine territory of Gerar, his envious neighbors stopped up wells that his father’s servants had dug. Instead of fighting for his rights, Isaac moved his household farther away and dug other wells. (Gen. 26:12-18) But the Philistines claimed that the water in this location was also theirs. Despite this, Isaac acted peacefully. (Gen. 26:19-25) What helped him to remain mild even when others seemed determined to provoke him? He surely observed the example of his parents, learning much from the peaceful ways of Abraham and “the quiet and mild spirit” of Sarah.​—1 Pet. 3:4-6; Gen. 21:22-34.

5. What example shows that Christian parents can teach children the value of mildness?

5 Christian parents, be assured that you too can teach your children the value of mildness. Consider the example of Maxence, age 17. He had to deal with angry people at school and in the ministry. His parents patiently worked with him to help him cultivate mildness. They say, “Maxence has come to understand that when provoked it takes more strength to hold back than to respond with anger or violence.” Happily, mildness has become Maxence’s strength.

6. How can prayer help us to improve in showing mildness?

6 What can we do when we are facing a tense situation, such as when someone slanders the name of our God or ridicules the Bible? We should ask Jehovah for his spirit and for his wisdom to respond in a mild way. What if we later realize that we did not respond as well as we should have? We can pray again about the matter and think of how we can do better the next time. In turn, Jehovah will grant us his holy spirit so that we can control our temper and show mildness.

7. How can memorizing certain scriptures help us to control our speech and reaction? (Proverbs 15:1, 18)

7 Some Bible verses can help us to control our speech when confronted with difficult situations. God’s spirit can bring those texts to mind. (John 14:26) For example, the principles we find in the book of Proverbs can help us to be mild. (Read Proverbs 15:1, 18.) That Bible book also reveals the benefits of showing restraint in tense situations.​—Prov. 10:19; 17:27; 21:23; 25:15.

HOW INSIGHT HELPS US TO BE MILD

8. Why should we consider what may have caused a person to challenge our beliefs?

8 Insight can also help us. (Prov. 19:11) An insightful person shows restraint when challenged about his beliefs. Some questions or challenges are like icebergs, the greater part lying below the surface. For example, a hidden motive or concern may prompt a person to ask a question. So before answering, we do well to realize that we may not know what has moved the person to raise the issue.​—Prov. 16:23.

9. How did Gideon show insight and mildness when dealing with the men of Ephraim?

9 Consider how Gideon responded to the men of Ephraim. They angrily challenged him as to why he did not call them earlier to join him in the fight against Israel’s enemies. Was there an underlying reason for their contentious attitude? Hurt pride, perhaps? Whatever the case, Gideon wisely respected their feelings and gave them a mild answer. The result? Disarmed, “they calmed down.”​—Judg. 8:1-3.

10. What will help us to know how to answer those who question our beliefs? (1 Peter 3:15)

10 Perhaps a coworker or a schoolmate questions our Christian stand on certain moral issues. We will do our best to defend our convictions while respecting our listener’s view. (Read 1 Peter 3:15.) It is often helpful to view the question as a way to learn what he cares about rather than as an attack or a challenge. Regardless of the reason why someone has raised an issue, we do well to respond in a gentle, kind way. Our answer may then move him to reconsider his viewpoint. Even if his manner seems rude or sarcastic, our goal should be to respond kindly.​—Rom. 12:17.

A workmate offering a sister a piece of birthday cake at her desk. Others eat, drink, and celebrate in a neighboring office.

We can better respond if we first consider that there may be reasons why an invitation to a birthday party is being offered (See paragraphs 11-12)

11-12. (a) What might we consider before answering a difficult question? (See also picture.) (b) Illustrate how asking a question may open the way for a conversation.

11 If a workmate asks, for example, why we do not celebrate birthdays, consider: Could he be wondering whether we are allowed to have a good time? Or might he feel that our position will dampen the company’s team spirit? We may be able to ease our workmate’s concerns by expressing how much we appreciate his interest in fellow workers and assuring him that we want to enjoy a pleasant environment at work. That might open the way to a relaxed conversation about what the Bible indicates regarding the subject of birthdays.

12 We might use a similar approach when other controversial topics come up. A schoolmate might assert that Jehovah’s Witnesses should change their view of homosexuality. Does that reflect a misconception about Jehovah’s Witnesses? Or could it be that he has a friend or a relative who is a homosexual? Does he assume that we have no love for people who pursue that lifestyle? We may need to assure him that we care for all people and that we respectfully recognize that each person has the right to make his own choices.b (1 Pet. 2:17) We might then be able to highlight the Bible’s beneficial moral standards.

13. How might you help someone who ridicules belief in God?

13 When confronted by someone who has strong views, we should not quickly assume that we know what he believes. (Titus 3:2) For example, what if your schoolmate says that it is ridiculous to believe in God? Should you assume that he strongly believes in evolution and knows a lot about it? Actually, he may not have given the subject much thought. Instead of starting a debate about science, you can find a way to give your schoolmate something to think about later. Perhaps you could direct him to material about creation found on jw.org. He might later be willing to discuss an article or a video found there. Yes, a respectful response may move him to reconsider his view.

14. How did Niall make good use of our website to help a classmate overcome a misconception about Jehovah’s Witnesses?

14 A teenager named Niall used our website to overcome misconceptions about Jehovah’s Witnesses. He says, “I was often told by a classmate that I do not believe in science because I trust a ‘made-up’ book rather than facts.” When this classmate did not allow Niall to explain his beliefs, he directed the classmate to the jw.org section “Science and the Bible.” Later, Niall discerned that the student had likely read the material and was more willing to discuss the origin of life. You might have a similar result.

PREPARE AS A FAMILY

15. How can parents help their children respond mildly when schoolmates challenge their beliefs?

15 Parents can effectively teach their children how to respond mildly when their beliefs are challenged. (Jas. 3:13) Some parents have practice sessions during family worship. They consider topics that might come up at school, discuss and demonstrate how to give an answer, and teach their children how to speak in a mild, appealing way.​—See the box “Practice Sessions Can Help Your Family.”

16-17. How may practice sessions help young ones?

16 Practice sessions can help Christians to present convincing arguments and to convince themselves that they have sound reasons for their beliefs. The “Young People Ask” series on jw.org includes worksheets for teenagers. Those are designed to help young ones to reinforce their beliefs and to prepare answers in their own words. By studying this series as a family, we all can learn how to defend our faith in a mild, appealing way.

17 A youth named Matthew explains how practice sessions helped him. As part of their family worship, Matthew and his parents often research topics that might be discussed in class. He says: “We think of what sort of scenarios might come up, and we practice how to handle them based on the research we did. When I have clearly in mind the reasons for my stand, I feel secure and I find it easier to be mild when dealing with others.”

18. Colossians 4:6 shows the value of what?

18 Of course, sound reasoning alone may not be enough to persuade some listeners. But expressing ourselves with tact and mildness can help. (Read Colossians 4:6.) Sharing our convictions can be likened to throwing a ball. We can toss the ball gently or hurl it forcefully. When we throw it gently, the other player is more likely to catch it and to continue playing. Similarly, if we express ourselves with tact and mildness, people may be more willing to listen and to continue the conversation. Of course, if someone wants to win a debate or to ridicule our beliefs, we are not obligated to answer him further. (Prov. 26:4) But such a person may be the exception; some​—perhaps many—​will listen.

19. What should motivate us to be mild when defending our beliefs?

19 Clearly, there is great value in making mildness a personal goal. Pray to Jehovah for the strength you need to remain mild when responding to controversial questions or unjust criticism. Remember, your mild attitude can prevent differences of opinion from escalating into arguments. And your mild, respectful answer may actually move some listeners to change their view about us and about Bible truths. Be “always ready to make a defense” of your beliefs, “doing so with a mild temper and deep respect.” (1 Pet. 3:15) Yes, let mildness be your strength!

SONG 88 Make Me Know Your Ways

a This article provides suggestions on how we can defend our beliefs with mildness when provoked or challenged by others.

b For practical suggestions, see the article “What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?” in the 2016 Awake! No. 4.

c You can find helpful suggestions on jw.org in the article series “Young People Ask” and “Frequently Asked Questions About Jehovah’s Witnesses.”

Like Peter, You Can Persevere

pp. 20–25

STUDY ARTICLE 40

Like Peter, You Can Persevere

“Depart from me, Lord, because I am a sinful man.”​—LUKE 5:8.

SONG 38 He Will Make You Strong

PREVIEWa

1. How did Peter react to a miraculous catch of fish?

PETER had spent an entire night fishing without catching anything. Surprisingly, Jesus said to him: “Pull out to where it is deep, and let down your nets for a catch.” (Luke 5:4) Peter doubted that he would catch any fish, but he did as he was directed. The lowered nets began ripping apart from the weight of the catch. Realizing that they had just witnessed a miracle, Peter and those working with him were “overwhelmed with astonishment.” Peter exclaimed: “Depart from me, Lord, because I am a sinful man.” (Luke 5:6-9) Peter apparently felt unworthy even to be in Jesus’ presence.

2. Why is it helpful for us to consider Peter’s example?

2 Peter was right​—he was “a sinful man.” The Scriptures show that he sometimes said and did things that he later regretted. Can you relate to Peter? Are you battling a personality flaw or a persistent sinful tendency? If so, you can gain hope by studying Peter’s example. How so? Consider this: Peter’s shortcomings could easily have been omitted from the Bible record. However, they were included under inspiration as lessons for us. (2 Tim. 3:16, 17) Learning about this man who had weaknesses and feelings like ours can help us to see that Jehovah does not expect perfection from us. He wants us to persevere​—to keep trying—​despite our weaknesses.

3. Why do we need to persevere?

3 Why is it necessary for us to persevere? There is a saying, Practice makes perfect. To illustrate: A musician may spend many years mastering his instrument. During that time, he may play thousands of wrong notes, but if he keeps practicing, he will improve. Even if he becomes a skilled musician, though, he may occasionally make a mistake. Still, he does not give up. He keeps working at his craft. In a similar way, even after we feel that we have overcome a certain weakness, we may suffer a setback. But we still keep working toward our goal. We all say or do things that we later regret; nonetheless, if we refuse to give up, Jehovah will help us to keep making progress. (1 Pet. 5:10) Let us consider Peter’s example of perseverance. The compassion Jesus showed him despite his shortcomings can motivate us to continue serving Jehovah.

PETER’S STRUGGLES AND BLESSINGS

The apostle Peter reacting in fear and astonishment as overfilled fishing nets begin to sink his boat. Jesus listens carefully to Peter while another man struggles with the nets.

How would you respond if you had an experience similar to that of Peter? (See paragraph 4)

4. As found at Luke 5:5-10, how did Peter describe himself, but how did Jesus assure him?

4 The Scriptures do not say why Peter described himself as “a sinful man” or what sins he had in mind. (Read Luke 5:5-10.) But he may have made some serious mistakes. Jesus sensed Peter’s fear, which could have stemmed from feelings of inadequacy. Jesus also knew that Peter could remain faithful. So Jesus kindly told Peter to “stop being afraid.” Jesus’ confidence in Peter had a lasting effect on him. Peter and his brother Andrew later abandoned their fishing business and became full-time followers of the Messiah, a decision that led to remarkable blessings.​—Mark 1:16-18.

5. What blessings did Peter receive by overcoming his fears and by accepting Jesus’ invitation?

5 Peter had many wonderful experiences as a follower of Christ. He saw Jesus heal the sick, expel demons, and even raise the dead.b (Matt. 8:14-17; Mark 5:37, 41, 42) Peter also witnessed a vision of Jesus’ future Kingdom glory, an event that had a great impact on him. (Mark 9:1-8; 2 Pet. 1:16-18) Yes, Peter saw things he could never have anticipated. How glad he must have been that he did not allow any negative feelings about himself to cause him to miss out on these blessings!

6. Did Peter quickly overcome his weaknesses? Explain.

6 Despite what he had seen and heard, Peter still struggled with his weaknesses. Consider a few examples. When Jesus explained how he would suffer and die in fulfillment of Bible prophecy, Peter rebuked him. (Mark 8:31-33) Repeatedly, Peter and the other apostles argued about who was the greatest. (Mark 9:33, 34) On the last night before Jesus’ death, Peter impulsively cut off a man’s ear. (John 18:10) That same night, Peter gave in to fear and three times denied knowing his friend Jesus. (Mark 14:66-72) That led Peter to weep bitterly.​—Matt. 26:75.

7. What opportunity was Peter given after Jesus’ resurrection?

7 Jesus did not give up on his disheartened apostle. After Jesus was resurrected, he gave Peter the opportunity to reaffirm his love for him. Jesus invited Peter to serve humbly as a shepherd of his sheep. (John 21:15-17) Peter responded positively. He was in Jerusalem on the day of Pentecost and among the first to be anointed by holy spirit.

8. What serious mistake did Peter make in Antioch?

8 Even after he became an anointed Christian, Peter had to deal with his weaknesses. In 36 C.E., Peter was present when the uncircumcised Gentile Cornelius was anointed with holy spirit, which was clear evidence that “God is not partial” and that Gentiles could be part of the Christian congregation. (Acts 10:34, 44, 45) Peter thereafter felt free to share meals with Gentiles, something he would never have done earlier. (Gal. 2:12) However, some Jewish Christians felt that Jews and Gentiles should not eat together. When some who had that viewpoint came to Antioch, Peter stopped eating with his Gentile brothers, likely out of fear of offending Jewish Christians. The apostle Paul saw this hypocrisy and rebuked Peter publicly. (Gal. 2:13, 14) Despite this setback, Peter persevered. What helped him?

WHAT HELPED PETER TO PERSEVERE?

9. How does John 6:68, 69 highlight Peter’s loyalty?

9 Peter was loyal; he did not let anything cause him to give up permanently. He demonstrated his loyalty on one occasion when Jesus said something that his disciples did not understand. (Read John 6:68, 69.) Without waiting for or seeking an explanation, many stopped following Jesus. But not Peter. He recognized that only Jesus had “sayings of everlasting life.”

The resurrected Jesus comforting Peter.

Why are you encouraged by the confidence that Jesus had in Peter? (See paragraph 10)

10. How did Jesus show confidence in Peter? (See also picture.)

10 Jesus did not abandon Peter. On the last night of his earthly life, Jesus knew that Peter and the other apostles would abandon him. Nevertheless, Jesus expressed confidence that Peter would recover and remain faithful. (Luke 22:31, 32) Jesus understood that “the spirit . . . is eager, but the flesh is weak.” (Mark 14:38) Accordingly, even after Peter denied knowing him, Jesus did not give up on his apostle. The resurrected Jesus appeared to Peter​—evidently when Peter was alone. (Mark 16:7; Luke 24:34; 1 Cor. 15:5) How that must have encouraged the downcast apostle!

11. How did Jesus assure Peter that Jehovah would support him?

11 Jesus assured Peter of Jehovah’s support. The resurrected Jesus provided Peter and his fellow apostles with another miraculous catch of fish. (John 21:4-6) This miracle no doubt reassured Peter that Jehovah could easily supply the material things he needed. Perhaps the apostle then recalled Jesus’ words that Jehovah would provide for those who keep “seeking first the Kingdom.” (Matt. 6:33) In line with that, Peter made the ministry, not the fishing business, his priority. He gave a bold witness on the day of Pentecost 33 C.E., helping thousands to accept the good news. (Acts 2:14, 37-41) He thereafter helped the Samaritans and the Gentiles to accept Christ. (Acts 8:14-17; 10:44-48) Jehovah certainly used Peter in a mighty way to bring people of all sorts into the congregation.

WHAT DO WE LEARN?

12. Keeping Peter’s example in mind, what should we remember if we are struggling with a persistent weakness?

12 Jehovah can help us to persevere. It may be a struggle to carry on, especially if we are coping with a persistent weakness. At times, our weaknesses may seem more challenging than those that Peter faced. But Jehovah can give us the strength not to give up. (Ps. 94:17-19) For example, one brother engaged in a homosexual lifestyle for a number of years before learning the truth. He decisively left those immoral practices behind. Still, he at times struggled with wrong desires. What helped him to persevere? He explains: “Jehovah strengthens us.” He adds: “With Jehovah’s spirit . . . , I have learned that it is possible to [continue] in the way of the truth . . . Jehovah has been able to use me, and despite my imperfections he continually strengthens me.”

Collage: A reenactment of Horst Henschel and his parents when he was young. 1. Horst sheepishly raises his right arm while other young boys raise their right arm and say the “Heil Hitler!” salute. 2. His parents pray with him. 3. A modern-day photo of Horst Henschel.

Horst Henschel began his full-time service on January 1, 1950. Do you think that he regretted using his life serving Jehovah? (See paragraphs 13, 15)d

13. How can we imitate the example of Peter, as recorded at Acts 4:13, 29, 31? (See also picture.)

13 As we saw, Peter succumbed more than once to fear of man. But by praying for boldness, Peter was able to act courageously. (Read Acts 4:13, 29, 31.) We too can overcome our fears. Consider what happened to Horst, a young brother who lived in Nazi Germany. More than once, he gave in to pressure at school and said “Heil Hitler!” Rather than rebuke him, Horst’s parents prayed with him, asking Jehovah to give him courage. With the help of his parents and reliance on Jehovah, Horst eventually gained the strength to stand firm. He later observed: “Jehovah never abandoned me.”c

14. How can caring shepherds assure those who feel discouraged?

14 Jehovah and Jesus will not give up on us. Peter was at a critical crossroads in his life after he denied Christ. Would he quit, or would he persevere as Christ’s disciple? Jesus had supplicated Jehovah that Peter’s faith would not give out. Jesus told Peter about that prayer and expressed confidence that Peter would later be able to strengthen his brothers. (Luke 22:31, 32) How it must have reassured Peter to think back on Jesus’ words! When we come to a crossroads in our life, Jehovah may use caring shepherds to provide the assurance we need to remain faithful. (Eph. 4:8, 11) A longtime elder named Paul tries to provide that comfort. He asks those who feel like giving up to reflect on how Jehovah first drew them to the truth. He then assures them that Jehovah’s loyal love will not allow Him to give up on them. He concludes, “I have seen many discouraged ones persevere with help from Jehovah.”

15. How do the examples of Peter and of Horst illustrate the truthfulness of Matthew 6:33?

15 Just as Jehovah provided materially for Peter and the other apostles, He will care for our material needs when we put the ministry first in our life. (Matt. 6:33) Following World War II, Horst, mentioned earlier, considered pioneering. He was very poor, though, and doubted that he could support himself and remain in the full-time ministry. What would he do? He decided to put Jehovah to the test, spending the entire week in the ministry during the visit of the circuit overseer. At the end of the week, he was shocked when the circuit overseer handed him an envelope from an anonymous donor. It contained enough money to sustain him in the pioneer service for several months. Horst viewed this gift as reassurance that Jehovah would sustain him. He spent the rest of his life putting Kingdom interests first.​—Mal. 3:10.

16. Why are Peter’s example and writings worthy of our attention?

16 How happy Peter must have been that Jesus did not depart from him, as Peter had once requested! Christ continued to train Peter to be a faithful apostle and an outstanding example for Christians. The record of that training contains many precious lessons that can benefit us all. Peter shared some of those lessons and more in two inspired letters that he sent to congregations in the first century. The next article will discuss a few reminders from these letters and how we can apply them today.

SONG 126 Stay Awake, Stand Firm, Grow Mighty

a This article is designed to assure those who struggle with weaknesses that they can overcome them and persevere as faithful servants of Jehovah.

b Many scriptures cited in this article are from Mark’s Gospel. He apparently recorded what he had heard from Peter, who was an eyewitness of the events.

c See Horst Henschel’s life story, “Motivated by My Family’s Loyalty to God,” in Awake!, February 22, 1998.

d PICTURE DESCRIPTION: As seen in this reenactment, Horst Henschel’s parents prayed with him and strengthened his determination to stand firm.

Lessons We Can Learn From Peter’s Two Letters

pp. 26–31

STUDY ARTICLE 41

Lessons We Can Learn From Peter’s Two Letters

“I intend always to remind you of these things.”​—2 PET. 1:12.

SONG 127 The Sort of Person I Should Be

PREVIEWa

1. Shortly before the apostle Peter’s death, what was he inspired to do?

THE apostle Peter knew his life would soon end. During his decades of faithful service, he walked with Jesus, opened up new fields for preaching, and served as a member of the governing body. But Peter’s service was not over. In about 62-64 C.E., he was inspired to write two letters​—the Bible books of 1 and 2 Peter. He expressed his hope that these letters would help Christians after his death.​—2 Pet. 1:12-15.

2. Why were the letters Peter wrote so timely?

2 Peter composed his inspired letters at a time when his fellow believers were “distressed by various trials.” (1 Pet. 1:6) Wicked men were trying to introduce false teachings and unclean conduct into the congregation. (2 Pet. 2:1, 2, 14) Christians living in Jerusalem would soon face “the end of all things”​—the destruction of that city and of the Jewish systems of things by Roman armies. (1 Pet. 4:7) No doubt Peter’s letters helped Christians to see what they could do to endure present trials and to prepare for future trials.b

3. Why should we examine Peter’s inspired letters?

3 Although Peter addressed his letters to the first-century Christians, Jehovah made these writings part of His Word. So we can now benefit from those letters. (Rom. 15:4) Living in a world that promotes unclean conduct, we also face trials that can make it difficult to serve Jehovah. Furthermore, we will soon experience a tribulation greater than the one that brought an end to the Jewish systems. We find some vital reminders in Peter’s two letters. These will help us to keep in expectation of Jehovah’s day, overcome fear of man, and cultivate intense love for one another. Such reminders can also help elders see how to care successfully for the needs of the flock.

KEEP IN EXPECTATION

4. As indicated at 2 Peter 3:3, 4, what could shake our faith?

4 We are surrounded by people who have no faith in Bible prophecy. Opposers may mock us because we have eagerly anticipated the end for many years. Some critics claim that it will never come. (Read 2 Peter 3:3, 4.) If we hear such comments from a householder, a workmate, or a family member, our faith could be shaken. Peter explained what can help us.

5. What will help us to keep the right perspective regarding the end of this system? (2 Peter 3:8, 9)

5 It may seem to some that Jehovah is slow to end the present wicked system. Peter’s words can help us to keep the right perspective, reminding us that Jehovah’s view of time is vastly different from that of humans. (Read 2 Peter 3:8, 9.) To Jehovah a thousand years are like one day. Jehovah is patient, not wanting any to be destroyed. When his day arrives, though, this system will end. What a privilege we have to use the time that remains to give a witness to people of all nations.

6. How do we “keep close in mind” Jehovah’s day? (2 Peter 3:11, 12)

6 Peter urges us to “keep close in mind” Jehovah’s day. (Read 2 Peter 3:11, 12.) How? We do well to meditate​—every day, if possible—​on the blessings of the new world. Visualize yourself taking a breath of really clean air, eating healthful food, welcoming back loved ones as they are resurrected, and teaching people who lived centuries ago about the fulfillment of Bible prophecies. Such meditation will help to keep you in expectation and protect you against becoming indifferent to the times we live in. By “having this advance knowledge” of our future, we will “not be led astray” by false teachers.​—2 Pet. 3:17.

OVERCOME FEAR OF MAN

7. How could fear of man affect us?

7 As we keep close in mind Jehovah’s day, we are moved to share the good news with others. Still, in some circumstances we may hesitate to speak up. Why? We may temporarily give in to fear of man. That happened to Peter. On the night of Jesus’ trial, Peter failed to identify himself as one of Jesus’ disciples and repeatedly denied even knowing him. (Matt. 26:69-75) This same apostle, however, could later say with conviction: “Do not fear what they fear, nor be disturbed.” (1 Pet. 3:14) Peter’s words assure us that we can overcome fear of man.

8. What can help us to overcome fear of man? (1 Peter 3:15)

8 What can help us to overcome fear of man? Peter tells us: “Sanctify the Christ as Lord in your hearts.” (Read 1 Peter 3:15.) This includes meditating on the position and the power of our Lord and King, Christ Jesus. If you feel nervous or fearful when an opportunity arises to share the good news with others, remember our King. Visualize him ruling in heaven surrounded by countless angels. Recall that he has “all authority . . . in heaven and on the earth” and that he will be “with you all the days until the conclusion of the system of things.” (Matt. 28:18-20) Peter urges us to be “always ready” to defend our faith. Would you like to give a witness at work, at school, or in some other informal setting? Think in advance about when you might be able to do so, then prepare what you will say. Pray for courage, trusting that Jehovah will help you overcome fear of man.​—Acts 4:29.

“HAVE INTENSE LOVE”

The apostle Peter eating a meal with some Gentile brothers.

Peter accepted correction from Paul. The two letters Peter wrote teach us to show love for our brothers and sisters (See paragraph 9)

9. On one occasion, how did Peter fail to show love? (See also picture.)

9 Peter learned how to succeed in showing love. He was present when Jesus said: “I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another; just as I have loved you, you also love one another.” (John 13:34) Despite that, Peter later gave in to pressure and refused to eat with his Gentile brothers and sisters. The apostle Paul called what Peter did a “pretense,” or an act of hypocrisy. (Gal. 2:11-14) Peter accepted that correction and learned from it. In both of his letters, he emphasizes that we should not only feel love for our brothers and sisters but also show that love.

10. “Unhypocritical brotherly affection” is the result of what? Explain. (1 Peter 1:22)

10 Peter says that we should have “unhypocritical brotherly affection” for fellow worshippers. (Read 1 Peter 1:22.) Such affection is the result of “obedience to the truth.” This truth includes the teaching that “God is not partial.” (Acts 10:34, 35) We cannot obey Jesus’ command about love if we show love to some in the congregation but not to others. Granted, we may feel closer to some than to others, as did Jesus. (John 13:23; 20:2) But Peter reminds us that we should strive to have “brotherly affection”​—a warm familylike attachment—​for all our brothers and sisters.​—1 Pet. 2:17.

11. What is involved in loving others “intensely from the heart”?

11 Peter urged us to “love one another intensely from the heart.” In this context, to love “intensely” involves stretching the limits of our natural inclination to love. For example, what if a brother offends or hurts us in some way? Our instinct may be to retaliate rather than to show love. Yet, Peter learned from Jesus that retaliation does not please God. (John 18:10, 11) Peter wrote: “Do not pay back injury for injury or insult for insult. Instead, repay with a blessing.” (1 Pet. 3:9) Allow intense love to move you to be kind and considerate even to those who may have hurt you.

12. (a) What else will intense love motivate us to do? (b) What do you want to strive to do, as illustrated in the video Preserve the Precious Gift of Unity?

12 In his first letter, Peter used the related expression “intense love.” Such love covers, not just a few sins, but “a multitude of sins.” (1 Pet. 4:8) Perhaps Peter recalled the lesson about forgiveness that Jesus had taught him years earlier. At the time, Peter likely believed that he was being generous when he suggested that he would forgive his brother “up to seven times.” But Jesus taught him​—and us—​to forgive “up to 77 times,” meaning without limit. (Matt. 18:21, 22) If you have found it hard to apply this counsel, take heart! All of Jehovah’s imperfect servants have at times struggled to forgive. The important thing now is for you to take any necessary steps to forgive your brother and to make peace with him.c

ELDERS, SHEPHERD THE FLOCK

13. What can make it challenging for elders to shepherd their brothers and sisters?

13 Peter surely never forgot what Jesus told him after his resurrection: “Shepherd my little sheep.” (John 21:16) If you are an elder, you know those instructions apply to you too. It can be challenging, though, for an elder to find the time to care for this important assignment. Elders must first care for their own families physically, emotionally, and spiritually. They also take the lead in the preaching work as well as in preparing and presenting parts at meetings, assemblies, and conventions. Some also have responsibilities as members of Hospital Liaison Committees or accept assignments with the Local Design/​Construction Department. Elders are truly busy men!

An elder making a shepherding call on a brother via videoconferencing. The elder’s Bible is open, and his tablet displays the video “Cultivate Joy in Your Family.”

Loving elders, though busy, give of themselves to shepherd the flock of God (See paragraphs 14-15)

14. What can motivate elders to shepherd the flock? (1 Peter 5:1-4)

14 “Shepherd the flock of God,” Peter urged his fellow elders. (Read 1 Peter 5:1-4.) If you are an elder, we know that you love your brothers and sisters and want to shepherd them. However, you may at times feel that you are so busy or so tired that you cannot fulfill that assignment. What can you do? Pour out your concerns to Jehovah. Peter wrote: “If anyone ministers, let him do so as depending on the strength that God supplies.” (1 Pet. 4:11) Your brothers and sisters may be facing problems that cannot be fully solved in this system of things. But remember that “the chief shepherd,” Jesus Christ, can help them beyond what you can do. He can do so both today and in the new world. God asks elders simply to love their brothers, to shepherd their brothers, and to become “examples to the flock.”

15. How does one elder shepherd the flock? (See also picture.)

15 William, a longtime elder, understands the importance of shepherding. As the COVID-19 pandemic began, he and his fellow elders made it a priority to contact each individual in their assigned group every week. He explains why: “Many of the brothers were home alone with their thoughts, and their thinking could quickly have turned negative.” When a fellow believer is struggling, William listens carefully to determine his or her needs and concerns. Then he finds specific resources, often videos from our website, to help the fellow servant. He notes: “Shepherding is needed now more than ever. We put forth great effort to help people to learn about Jehovah; we need to make a similar effort to shepherd the flock, helping Jehovah’s sheep remain in the truth.”

ALLOW JEHOVAH TO FINISH YOUR TRAINING

16. In what ways might we apply lessons we have learned from Peter’s letters?

16 We have discussed only a few lessons from Peter’s two inspired letters. Perhaps you have noted an area in which you want to improve. For example, would you like to meditate more often on the blessings to come in the new world? Have you set the goal of witnessing at work, at school, or in some other informal setting? Do you see ways in which you could show intense love for your brothers and sisters more fully? Elders, are you determined to shepherd Jehovah’s sheep willingly and eagerly? An honest self-examination may reveal that you have certain weaknesses, but do not be discouraged. “The Lord is kind,” and he will help you to improve. (1 Pet. 2:3) Peter assures us: “God . . . will himself finish your training. He will make you firm, he will make you strong, he will firmly ground you.”​—1 Pet. 5:10.

17. If we persevere and allow ourselves to be trained by Jehovah, what will be the result?

17 Peter once felt unworthy to be in the presence of God’s Son. (Luke 5:8) But with the loving support of Jehovah and of Jesus, Peter persevered as a follower of Christ. Peter thus was approved to gain “entrance into the everlasting Kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” (2 Pet. 1:11) What a reward! If you persevere as Peter did and allow yourself to be trained by Jehovah, you too will receive the reward of everlasting life. You will “attain the goal of your faith, your salvation.”​—1 Pet. 1:9.

SONG 109 Love Intensely From the Heart

a In this article, we will see how lessons learned from Peter’s letters can help us to endure trials. Also, elders will be helped to see how they can fulfill their responsibility as shepherds.

b Likely, Christians living in Palestine received both of Peter’s letters before the initial attack on Jerusalem in 66 C.E.

c See on jw.org the video Preserve the Precious Gift of Unity.

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Research Tip

Children’s Activities

Parents have the weighty responsibility to teach their children about Jehovah. (Eph. 6:4) To help parents, Jehovah’s organization has published a wide range of material. How can you use it to train your children?

  • Find the material. JW.ORG contains all the items published for young people, including videos and written activities.a To find these, enter “Children” or “Teenagers” in the search bar.

  • Select appropriate items. What is published under the section “Children” can help you select activities appropriate for your child. To find such, search “Family Worship Projects.”

  • Stay involved. Avoid using our videos or printed activities just to occupy your child’s time and attention. Instead, discuss them with your child and help him to build his friendship with Jehovah.

a JW Library® currently contains all the videos for young people but only a limited set of written activities.